University is a mixing pot. I'm from a small town conservative background so it's the first time I've met so many people of so many backgrounds and beliefs - and that includes the far left wing girl in the dorm room next door to mine.

I don't know why I found her attractive. I've never been into girls like that. I'm more of a blonde bombshell kind of guy, the posh girls I see at my tennis club, not the dyed blue hair, tattoos and piercings. She wasn't chatty, certainly wasn't flirty, barely even smiled. She constantly complained about politics and clearly hated guys like me.

Yet something about that drew me in. I kept trying harder and harder to break through the barrier. I started purposefully trying to bump into her so we could chat more and more.

The walls aren't exactly the thickest so I can hear pretty much everything she does, like when she's listening to music - or having sex with her boyfriend. At first I tried to block it out, I thought it was creepy and pathetic to hear. It was like it was running my nose in my defeat. But like some kind of exposure therapy, night after night, hour after hour, it started to get to me. I tried to tell myself that getting horny wasn't connected to it, then that hearing sex like that must just be some kind of natural aphrodisiac and it's not my fault.

We got closer over time, she often called me cute, but I assumed I was just deep in the friendzone. So, after a few too many drinks in ger room one night I was utterly shocked senseless when she asked if I wanted her to fuck me. "Literally" she added. I was confused - she had a boyfriend, I was just in the friendzone... Then she reached into a draw and pulled out a strap on.

They might I was pegged for the first time.