hi all! been a little while since I've last posted here. the weather is getting colder and I could use someone to stay warm with.

about me: * 31 (consistently told I look younger than I am, #asiandontraisin) * Chinese American * 5'8", 170 lb, black hair/brown eyes/glasses/clean-shaven, athletic body type *stem professional, single, lives alone in a luxury apartment on the North Side (can host) * DDF as of last testing and will test again before meeting * interests include weightlifting, art lessons, trying new restaurants, sports, community service, cute coffee shops.

about you: * 18-40, * preferably Asian (East/South/Southeast) * single/unattached (not looking for complications) * DDF (tested/willing to test) * hwp/petite and physically active * preferably a switch * trimmed/clean-shaven * non-smoker * generally easy going and open minded. like just be a good person!

what I'm looking for: some fun, a friend with benefits, a winter cuddle buddy, whatever you want to call it. this can be a one time or short-term thing but I am also interested in enjoying the process of getting to know someone intimately on a personal and physical level. I would love a meaningful friendship connection before the benefits come into play; I think that makes the sex that much better. I am a high libido, attentive partner who most enjoys knowing that I am giving my partner pleasure, whatever that may look like for her. I greatly enjoy giving oral and could be down there for hours, listening to my partner moan, bucking her hips into my face, getting wetter and wetter til she orgasms - like I said, ultimately my biggest turn on is giving you pleasure. I am very sex-positive and communication and compassion are key for me, explicitly communicated consent is super sexy, and discretion is paramount. I would call myself mostly dominant with occasional switch tendencies. some kinks of mine that I would love to explore include rough sex, humiliation, public play/exhibitionism, restraints, breeding (responsibly).

happy to trade verified pictures after chatting and mutual interest. prefer first meeting in public for coffee/drinks for comfort and safety. your safety and pleasure are my priorities, in addition to good communication, clear consent, and discretion.

happy searching and hoping to hear from you!