Any Middle Eastern guys around? I ask because I'm learning a few Middle Eastern languages at the moment and the cultures fascinate me, but I'm fully white. And it's definitely not a deal-breaker, either way.

I'll start with a bit about myself though. I'm 21 years old, I grew up mostly in Britain, but I'm currently living in Hamburg, Germany. I'm currently in Toronto, Canada, for a while (and possibly other cities in Canada if I have time), and then back in London and Manchester for a bit before heading to Germany. In any case, I'm happy to chat to people from anywhere. I'm not 100% against meeting people off here, but if that's what you're absolutely looking for, I'm probably not right for you, since I'm mainly looking for a correspondence.

My main intention here is really, quite simply, to have an honest discussion about sexual experiences and preferences. You just can't have that kind of openness with a person face-to-face unless you know each other quite well, if at all, and I'm just interested in hearing others' perspectives on the matter without the usual social hindrances to honesty. I'll say that I have a fair amount of experience (though I may often come across more of the quiet and shy type), and, to be completely honest, I'm not interested in using reddit to substitute for a lack of real-life excitement.

Really, I'm looking for the kind of interesting conversation that's only possible with strangers. I should specify that I'm quite submissive by nature, and dominant guys would generally be preferred. Also, I'm straight, but I'd really be interested in talking to other submissive girls and comparing how we've been able to or would like to live out our sexuality (but please, no guys pretending to be other submissive girls and hoping to dirty talk or something like that).

Since I know it'll matter to a lot of people: I'm about 5'6, fit, with blonde brown hair and blue eyes. I'm open to anybody, but I would prefer people nearer to my own age. I also ask that you be capable of writing coherently, and open enough to have interesting conversation. Hopefully you'll find me interesting as well!

As a starter, here's random thing that's been on my mind recently: has tickling ever played a role in your interactions with partners (whether short or long-term)? I don't mean tickling as a part of sexual activities, I mean more of a way of interacting with partners in other contexts (and I also don't mean a gentle stroking or something, I'm talking about the all-out kind of tickling that makes you laugh). I tend to go for more of the dominant type of guy, and it's an example of an early sign of dominance that shows me if a guy's dominant before we ever even get together. If he likes being "in charge", there's a very high chance he'll tickle me. It's one of the strangest mixtures between affection and aggression. Is this something you identify with? Or is this something you get done to you?

Interestingly, I've also found that more dominant guys usually hate being tickled. Anyway, I meant it as an example of the hidden dynamics of intimate relationships. Interesting, tickling can say a lot about sexual tension between friends or even basic acquaintances before it's acted upon (and even if it never gets acted upon).

Of course, I'm also open to discussing sex itself and the cruder side of things, but hopefully as part of a broader discussion. One more thing: I really try to be open-minded, so if you've had unusual sexual experiences or relationships, I'm still open to hearing about them (but I do mean experiences, not fantasies you'd like to convince me are true). Alternatively, if there are things you think you'd enjoy but haven't had the chance to do yet, I'd be interested in hearing about those as well.

It would be nice if you included your age and gender, and ideally also location in your first message. I speak German as well if you prefer. And please use the reddit chat instead of direct messages if you write to me!