Hi. I'm a married man and I'm looking for an attached woman who is thoughtful, kind, and well spoken with whom I can have frequent, intense, emotionally honest, uninhibited, sometimes philosophical, erudite, grammatically correct, heady, and occasionally salacious texting conversations, starting now and lasting for a very long time -- hopefully forever. I'd like us to start communicating via messages on here, then, if the chemistry is right, we can transition to messaging via Telegram. Email is a possibility too if you like long-form exchanges.

I find that putting thought and care into text-based communications, and knowing that someone smart who cares is out there waiting to read my words with alacrity, makes me feel more connected to life and gives more weight to my existence. I crave those feelings of connectedness and weight. I hope that I can give you those feelings too.

I want us to be able to chat about anything under the sun, ranging from the nature of existence, to art, current events, our quotidian struggles, our hopes and dreams, and just, you know, how our days are going and what we're daydreaming about as we sit through yet another boring meeting at work. Nothing should be off limits, not even -- or especially not -- sex. I don't really visualize us ever meeting (but never say never, one supposes), but I'm hopeful that a good friendship between us will develop over time.

Please note: I love my wife very much. I never want to hurt her and I'll never leave her. Somehow though extensive text conversations between us seem superfluous given that we talk to often at such length in person.

Me:

* Over the years others I've heard others describe me as kind, smart, intense, sensitive, persistent and energetic

* I like to read, take photographs, listen to rock and jazz, hike, camp, and backpack

* I work full-time at a technology company

* Bibliophile, logophile, museophile

* Quite introverted, though I love to attend or host small parties

* Moderate social drinker

* 5'10" and a runner

* A bit nerdy in overall appearance, I have short brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm a neat and careful (if not exceptionally stylish) dresser

You, hopefully, are smart, kind, thoughtful, a good communicator, and neither conservative nor religious.