Hallo to anyone that stumbles upon my little post although little will probably be an understatement after I'm done writing lol.

Now where to begin. Well I’m hoping to find a person who is interested in a chill FWB situation where we actually can talk to each other throughout the day and hangout places when time permits. I've done this in the past and a lot of people seem to forget the friend part of friends with benefit. The amount of times conversations have gotten sexual within the first hour or people immediately messaging hey baby with a winky face is just exhausting. If I were looking to jump straight into the sex I'd be elsewhere. Surely there is someone out there who can understand that sex is so much more enjoyable when you've got some form of a bond with that person which leads into my next talking point you 🫵🏽

Ideally you'd have similar interest as mine so we actually have things to talk about. You don't have to have all of them but some overlap would be nice. My interest consist of cooking, trying new foods, cosplay, reading, video games, building computers, anime/manga, and attending video game concerts when time and money permits. I'm also an enjoyer of cats so cat people to the front of the line please 🐈

I'm black, working full time, and attending college but despite that I still have a lot of time on my hands as I manage my time fairly well. In general I'd describe myself as a go with the flow kind of person. If you want to do something specific there's a high chance I'll be like sure why not, within reason of course. I'm located in the Litchfield county area so ideally you'd be within that area too though I'm willing to make exceptions if you're from other surrounding areas that are within reasonable distance. 🚗

As for the benefits part of this I would say I'm a pretty kinky person but it isn't a hard requirement. If you want chill normal sex then I gotchu. But if you're curious about kinks or want to discuss kinks that's a conversation we can have in the DMs.

Please be single as that would not be fair to whoever you're with, introduce yourself with age, the part of CT you're from, and tell me what you think is the best place to eat out at in your part of CT.

Physically I'm a short and lean guy coming in at a whopping 5'4 with light skin and short black hair. As the saying goes, a picture speaks a thousand words so I can just send you a selfie to judge for yourself. If you decide to open up with a pic in your introductory message please ensure it is a SFW or I will immediately block and not entertain further discussion.

And with the completion of that book finished (they should hire me to finish A Song of Ice and Fire) I look forward to hearing from someone whenever. If work isn't busy or I'm chilling at home I usually can reply fairly instantly