Hiya! I know sifting through posts on these subs can be really overwhelming and can sometimes make the thought of reaching out feel nerve-wracking, so I'm going to do my best to focus on explaining the kind of connection I'm searching for, introducing you to the type of person I am and the type of guidance I can offer, and save a lot of the more intimate details for private messages. It'll be a long post and might not be a very sexy read, but if you've gotten this far and your interest is piqued, please stick with it until the end and hear me out. Sound good? Great, lets get started!

First I want to talk a little bit about my motivation for making a post like this and what I hope to find through it. For most of my life I've been drawn to the role of a protector, teacher and caregiver. I'm an older brother, I've helped care for elderly family members and have a professional background in communications, coaching and counseling. I feel an immense amount of fulfilment and purpose when I'm able to guide someone through a tough time or something new, and I cherish the bonds formed through these shared experiences.

This has extended to my sexual life as well, and some of my most enjoyable intimate connections have been through leading my partner, slowly pushing their boundaries and helping them discover who they are in a sexual sense and what they like and dislike. I pride myself on being able to foster a safe, private and consensual environment that will help give my partner the freedom to push themselves, make mistakes and let go of much of the shame, fear, judgment and expectation that typically comes with being a sexually active young woman.

While much of my focus will be on my partner's interests, I don't want it to come off like I'm doing selfless act. This level of trust and intimacy is my biggest turn on and my sexual gratification comes through the building of these bonds and the exploration we share together. As such, I'm looking for a connection that is serious, long term, intimate and monogamous. I've had a handful of connections like these in the past both online and in person, but I haven't searched in quite this way before. I want to stress that I have no requirements when it comes to age (other than 18 ), appearance, ethnicity, location or background. Personality and connection are what matters to me, nothing else.

I'm happy to answer any question you might have and go into more detail about my experiences and also hear about the things you're seeking and value in a connection like this. If you've gotten this far, please send me a message and introduce yourself, and I'll respond to every message I get after I eat dinner. :)

P.S. As long as this post remains up, I'm still searching, so don't be afraid to send me a message even if you see this a week or two later!