I hate that I want to get laid but I also donāt want to sleep with just anyone.
What the hell are you supposed to do when youāre horny?
I donāt want to catch an std and I detest having sex with dumb people.
Itās a very shitty duality I deal with.
I donāt want to go to a bar and meet someone drunk. And I donāt want to go out because Iām so introverted I just canāt sit and spend all the energy to make conversation. Itās taxing.
Why arenāt there apps for introverts? Seriously I feel like everything is geared towards extroverts when they generally donāt even need to go online to meet people.
I really donāt want to date. Iāve been through tons of dating. I was married once. I donāt want to give up my independence or autonomy or ability to do what I want without feeling like Iām neglecting someone. I donāt want to hurt anyone or even have to wonder if Iām going to hurt someone.
I just want simplicity and zero stress.
But yes, I occasionally get horny and want to have sex.
Itās not something I think about all the time. Iām pretty happy masturbating for the most part. But I do want to have someone I can meet up with occasionally that also wants physicality ( not empty meaningless sex) and intimacy.
Iām horrible at maintaining communication. I get busy at work. And then I get home and have to cook and clean and then I want to relax. That doesnāt really entail keeping in constant communication with anyone. I know Iām not painting the best picture, Iām just being honest. Iād probably maintain good communication before we meet (if we meet) and then text infrequently after that. But that doesnāt mean Iām no longer interested or out whoring around. I just need a ton of alone time.
I would probably work best with another independent person whoās a closet introvert that doesnāt want to commit to giving a ton of time to one person (hence, theyāre not trying to date).
But I want to have nights of long lasting and passionate sex. I want to worry about making you cum before I think about myself. I want to make your knees shake while I eat you out and then slam my cock I to you once I make you cum with my mouth. I want to prolong the experience as long as possible. For me, sex has to be mutual and reciprocal. If itās 1 sided it gets really old.
I am not really attractive. Iām average height. A little overweight and look my age. If youāre worried about looks Iām probably not for you.
If you made it this far and arenāt completely disinterested, write me and tell me what your favorite food is. I wonāt respond to āhiā or other one word replies.
Also, sorry but local only. Greater San Diego area.
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