Hello, the title of this post may sound naive and desperate, but let me explain myself. Yes I am looking for women to have nsfw chats with me, sexting or dirty chats of the like, however, that's only part of what I'm seeking. Really, I'm just looking for a genuine friendship that's not only on the naughty side but someone who's also single and looking for a companion, online at least, like part friendship, part friends with benefits kind of thing. I can't make the time or the trip to meet in person if you're elsewhere in the world, but text or voice chat is welcomed depending on our method of communication.

I would like to tell you a bit about myself briefly so that you have a sense of who I am and what I am looking for. I am single. I am also a virgin. I've never been in a relationship, nor do I have any hook up experiences. So I'm an amateur at this. It is stupid to use this subreddit as a form of a dating app, but I trust reddit more than tinder due to many people here who are down to earth. I am inexperienced in flirting but I am good at having a nice conversation with people. I am a rambler, but I'm also a good listener.

However if you're gonna look at my post history to check on my validity, I will sound contrary to how I'm writing here. Yes, I do watch porn, and yes I have made many requests here on r/dirtyr4r, and comments on other nsfw subreddits so if that is a deal breaker for you, then you have the right to ignore this post. However if you don't mind that I watch, or if you also watch porn yourself and don't mind chatting about it, then it's good enough and preferable enough for me so that we can skip on the awkwardness. The idea here is to be honest, while having the choice to be anonymous, or not. I may be a pervert but I'm not a massive degenerate.

To know a bit more about myself:

• I'm a massive movie nerd, horror mostly.
• I have a hobby of photography, both digital and film.
• I am also a somewhat avid reader, the majority of my bookshelf has three shelves worth of Stephen King books; about 15% percent of his bibliography I've read.
• I am equally a dog and cat person.
• I love sharing work related horror stories.
• I can get clingy or infatuated easily unfortunately.
• I text a lot. Wether if I'm asking for your attention or sharing shitpost memes

Regarding kinks and fantasies, I would prefer to leave that in the dms once chatting starts.

All women, 28 years old and/or mature, are welcomed to start chatting with me as long as you're single. Don't make it complicated if you're already in a relationship or married, that would just be bad for both of us. Polyamorous people I can allow. If I don't respond soon, that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you, it could be that I'm busy or away from reddit. I would never ghost anyone, and I hope that I won't get ghosted as well.

Really I prefer if you would be honest and straight up tell me this is a simple online hook up and nothing more should come out of this. I would prefer that, then you not responding to my messages. If you also feel that the conversation isn't going anywhere or that you're not feeling the chemistry, then just tell me you're not feeling it and say good bye. I shouldn't expect an instant response, but in the same time, it would be nice to hear from you, even if it's an emoji or a one word text. Don't leave me hanging. I would really like this to be long term if not then tell me that up front.

Thank you all for taking the time to read this lengthy post. If you are interesting in chatting with me then hit me up. Let's take this as a form of a first date and see how much further we can take this. I hope that you consider this.