Hello there, just another guy out there looking for a caring partner to spend some quality time with. I find myself to be this independent ands shy guy who is scared to admit the kind of person I want to be to others. But thankfully the internet allows for some anonymous posting where I can share my thoughts of the type of partner I would like in my life without feeling judged. When people in real life see me, they find me to be this guy who is laid back and quiet. But what I don’t like showing is my submissive side that enjoys when someone tells me what to do. Someone who enjoys my time and company, but also enjoys having a partner dedicated to fulfilling your desires. Not from a place of ownership or degredation, but rather one of love and care for each other. That is why I lean towards the gentle femdom dynamic.

I’m looking for someone who is dominant or a switch type of personality. While I played a dominant role in most of my past relationships, I prefer the more submissive role and would love to find someone to put me in that role. I’m not into degrading or anything that is focused on embarrassing the partner. Rather I’d like to find someone who keeps our dom/sub dynamic something between us two. Where in public we are a normal, fun loving partners. But behind it all you are the one making decisions both in and out of the bedroom. Where you like to reward me when I do exactly what you tell me, and punish me when I didn’t do things exactly like you wanted. I in turn would shower you with love and affection and be open to doing whatever you wanted from me. The main focus would be the dynamic develops out of a love for doing things for the other person.

My ideal partner is someone who enjoys reading, deep conversations, board and or video games, watching shows together, and traveling to new places each year.

Happy to share and talk more about it if I have peaked your interest.