Hi there. I hope you are having a good one! ☺️

I'm not exactly sure what to say here, as I've never really vocalized some of this stuff. but I'll just try my best to describe what I'm looking for! There will be some kinky stuff more towards the bottom of the post, but this will also be about more of the wholesome side of what I'm seeking. There is some BDSM in this post towards the bottom so it is related, but I am including other things as well for context.

For most of my life I've been expected by society to be the dominant one in all my 4 previous relationships with the exception of my high school girlfriend who took a sweet, gentle dominant role in our relationship. The truth is, I definitely have always leaned on the submissive side of things and want nothing more than to just be somebody's person in the most wholesome & loving way and truly devote myself to them not just in a sexual way although there would be plenty of that. Just a loving and accepting kind of way. Just accepting my place as yours and being loyal to you. But obviously this is something that needs to be built over time with getting to know each other and seeing if we are a good fit. I am not here to turn you into a kink dispenser. I am here to find my person that I can be faithful to, support and love with all my heart and soul (hopefully.) I am a very loyal and faithful partner and I also love cuddling a lot.

If someone decides to reach out from this post, it will probably take a while for me to trust you because of how people have treated me in the past, but it will be worthwhile for the both of us. 🥰 I really just need to get to know the person in a completely normal way first and see if we click. The kinky stuff is there obviously in the background, which I will talk about later. But it takes more of a backseat to just the general dynamic that I'm seeking. Overall I am a very normal guy and seem very vanilla to everyone else. Somewhat nerdy and average weight, white, and 5'8. So if you like taller guys I'm probably not what you're looking for, lol.

I want to trust you completely to the point where I feel comfortable giving myself to you completely. This won't happen over night. I really want to sit in your lap and hug you all night and bury my face in your tummy and be your good boy most of the time. I want to smell like you from being so clingy to you. I want to sit on the couch with you like this beside a fireplace and just snuggle up to you like a cat. I have a lot to give to the right person. I would love to take care of someone and support you emotionally and give you tons of cuddles & hugs. Give you back rubs and foot rubs.

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As far as my personal life, I am from North Carolina, born and raised but open to relocation for the right girl. I love the outdoors, hiking and camping. I also love traveling, photography, and PC games! I am a huge music junkie as well and maybe we can share some music back and forth. Maybe you can share some of your hobbies with me too, and we can bond over those as well!

I am college educated with a bachelors degree, no real debts to speak of, good financial standing, and a career in sales with a side business that I've started from scratch. I do okay for myself. I am more than willing to share SFW pictures in private messages of what I look like.

NSFW/Kinky stuff- 😅

Now about the kinky stuff lol. 😅 Don't expect me to immediately be into this stuff with you, it will need to be worked up to but I am into being bit and marked. held down and shoved around playfully. I love sloppy kisses, making out and lip biting. 🥰 I love CNC, and I would like to be someone's free-use slut. I love the idea of being tied up and bruised. I love being reminded that I'm yours. I'm curious about pegging & toys and would like to try it with the right person at some point. Sex on edibles is great too. I will most likely NOT call you mommy, just doesn't feel right. I am open to most kinks and will pretty much let you ruin me and make me your property. Face-sitting, and will eat your pussy for hours and let you smother me. 🤤 All I ask is you clean me up afterwards and give me some affection and tell me I did a good job and snuggle me. 🥺🥹

Dealbreakers/No Go stuff -

• 24/7 extreme dynamic
• Body waste/blood/barf
• Non monogamy / forced bi or introducing a 3rd
• Permanent damage
• Cheating / ignoring each other's needs.
• I only want a monogamous real relationship

I hope to hear from you x