Good evening,

What is the nature of the relationship between the masculine and the feminine? Why can you feel raw tension whenever those two entangle? Why is that a recurring theme in many movies, shows, books and fantasies? I've always found the relationship between the masculine and the feminine fascinating. It's what piqued my interest in domination and submission. It's what led me down the path of kink.

Being a dominant is an extension of being masculine. To be dominant you have to be confident, protective, assertive and responsible. Does that sound familiar? Yes. It's the basis being masculine is built on. Being masculine means embracing your true nature as a man. It means getting control of your base desires through rigorous discipline and practice. It means having the ability to be in control of your emotions, your anger, your arousal and your aggression and being able to use those tools at will. How does that lead to being dominant you ask? Being dominant is being well-practiced and in control of your masculinity. It is that natural confidence you acquire after you've proven yourself in battle (so to speak). It's that ability to be in control and take charge of any situation that arises. To be able to lead effectively. All that is based on being competent at being masculine.

When you're a dominant partner you desire certain things...You desire to take. You desire to own. You desire to lead. You desire to protect. Being dominant is about being a leader, taking control, ownership and responsibility of your submissive partner and protecting them thus making them feel safe and valued. When you're dominant you desire to conquer your partner. You want to ravage her, you want to take your pleasure from her, you want to own her. The beauty of domination is that it's based on responsibility. How can you expect your partner to obey you unless you've taken responsibility of her? Your authority over her comes from being responsible for her.

As a feminine woman you embrace your softness, you embrace your natural desire to be led. You embrace your nurturing nature, you embrace your desire to belong to a masculine man. You embrace your submission to a worthy partner.

When you're a submissive partner you desire to be taken, you desire to be owned, you desire to be protected, you desire to be led, you desire to be conquered and you desire safety. You feel the most feminine when you know you can just turn you brain off and trust your leader to make the decisions for you. You can feel safe and protected when you know a strong man is looking out for you.

This is why this dynamic can be so enticing, so electrifying. It's a perfect match. The taker and the taken, the leader and the follower, the conqueror and the conquered. The fucker and the one being fucked...

I'm looking for a conversation about this topic, our experiences regarding this type of dynamic. Embrace your curiosity and dive into this topic. Who knows, I might even choose you as a partner for something more than conversation...if you're worthy.

I am a 31 year old male, well-read, a bit of an intellectual, more than a bit spicy and I work in the medical field. Kindly introduce yourself with your message.

Thank you