Greetings from northern Germany 👋🏼
A little bit about me to start out with:
My name is Jan, 28, 1,86m, 75kg, slim fit build, short brown hair and blue eyes. I love going for long walks/hikes, relax on my balcony on sunny days, watch the sunset and occasionally play video games and read mangas when I have the time for it.
I knew my whole life that I have been very submissive but couldn't really live that part of my life in any of my previous relationships. That's what I'm going to change from now on. I have realized that I'm not being happy to play something that I am not. That being dominant or constantly making decisions for others.
I don't list my kinks here as that's something for me to speak about in detail when it gets to that point. It's not like it's anything extreme to not openly say here but I also think that kinks come down to the dynamic between the partner and myself. Limits for me are blood, lasting marks and extreme pain, scat and public stuff. It's important for me to build a connection outside of kink and have shared interests or just vibe really well. Communication is key here and that's what I would also expect from my dominant partner.
I'm okay with starting out online at first but would ultimately look for something long term as an IRL-dynamic. I just feel like that the intimacy Is lacking in an online only scenario over long periods of times. Being able to have someone you invest in so much is something that feels so rewarding!
I'll put a sfw picture on my profile so you can get a glimpse of what I might look like and that I didn't lie with my description :)
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