Hey r/dirtyr4r  people - hope you all had a good weekend. I'm sitting here with the Sunday scaries and about to do some work late into the night, unfortunately, but hoping maybe to find someone to distract me.

I'm 30, east asian, 5'8, and a classic NYC capitalist wage slave grinding away at my career (is it worth it? no idea). I got out of a long-term relationship earlier this year and have done some online dating but tbh i'm not really that interested in dating and online dating kind of sucks anyways haha, as i'm sure you well know. Really what'd be great would be to just have a chill friends with benefits situation. I work out a lot and go to the gym several times a week and would consider myself to be in above average shape - here's (some of) me: https://imgur.com/a/ew41c10.

Physically, i've been told I have broad shoulders, a nice butt, and that i'm more fit than i look in clothes when they come off lol. I'm about 150 lbs and of average looks, slightly nerdy vibes i guess (thanks mom). Generally, i've been told i'm very fun to talk to, am generally quite witty and funny (although i can feel my social skills withering away into work-speak, rip). I'm pretty easy-going and can get along with a lot of different folks.

Sexually, i'd say i'm pretty dominant, am averagely endowed, and relatively kinky without being, idk, overly kinky? But pretty open to anything and am fortunate to be a person who lasts pretty long (most of the time lmao) as well. But i'm clearly not as kinky as some of the people on these dirty subreddits lol, so if you're looking for something extreme, that probably ain't me.

I'm in brooklyn and could host.

You:

Ideally you're somewhere between 21-35, similar in height or shorter than me, and of reasonable attractiveness and in reasonable shape - not looking for you to be a model or anything. Prefer white or asian. I'm not into thick or chubby folks, sorry! Drug and disease free goes without saying, and hopefully not looking to harvest any of my (essential) organs.

If this sounds interesting to you, feel free to send me a chat or DM and ideally tell me a little bit about you - it's hard to respond to "hi". Pic(s) are helpful too since i've shared.