I know this will be a long search, but I do feel like there is someone out there feeling and thinking the same way I am. I’m looking for three possible situations, friends, a friend with benefits and both leading to a possible relationship in the future. While I never really had friends IRL or been in a relationship, I just want to make it clear that I’m fully monogamy. I’m not interested in polyamory and never will be. I just want to make it clear that I do not live alone or drive. I have my own funds. I’m currently in college and hoping to change that soon. I’m also on a weight loss journey and lost a whole lot but I’ve no where near having the ideal body type that I imagine myself having. A lot of weight loss does come with some loose skin, but it will be gone soon. Im hella anti social and an introvert so talking to people can take some time but after a while I do get comfortable. So pretty much, I'm not established with a lot of things with life so if that's something you don't want then this post isn't for me.  

What am I like?

First, I’m American mixed with Jamaican and British. Some say I look handsome so I would put myself in that category. I’m 5’9 and weight just about 185 pounds. I don’t smoke or do drugs. I wear glasses. I have no tattoos. I’m not the smartest person but I do have some common sense. I'm quiet around people but when we are alone, I can talk a lot. I’m the type of person to be by your side and make sure that you’re happy, who will put aside things to support you, who will be honest and tell you the truth if you allow me to, who will make sure that you’re comfortable and not force anything, who is the type to pat attention and listen.

What I’m looking for

I want someone who wants to enjoy any type of humor no matter what it is and not take it too seriously, who wants to support each other when it comes to struggles, who enjoys watching movies and anime and talk about our favorite characters and watch new ones together, who likes to play games whether its PC or Switch and vibe until we grinded our characters for the day lol, who wants to learn more about coding, who wants to explore kinks with, who wants to spend some time in nature and day dream listening to music or the wildlife. I want someone who I can be stupid with. I honestly prefer someone just being themselves.

There is more about me on my profile. Send me an intro, including age (23-30) & location (in NYC or very close). I know we both have a preference so just be open about all of that and we see how it goes. I’m open to sending a picture right after you.