Hello,

I'm a genuine, communicative, competent submissive, and I hope that I can be a positive addition to the life of a dominant counterpart. I find comfort in submitting to a Domme's lead, and I find fulfillment in being useful to her in the ways she desires.

My goal is to make this as far from a kink-dispenser type dynamic as can be. I know we're on a kinky subreddit and I'll list my kinks below for the sake of gauging compatibility, but my hope is that you'll feel comfortable asserting your needs without pressure to incorporate a laundry list of kinks. I have a general desire to feel obedient and subservient to you, which is the essence of what I'm looking for. How exactly that manifests is entirely up to you. It doesn't even need to be sexual if that's not what you're looking for.

This may give off very gental femdom vibes, but I've had good experiences with both gentler Dommes and Dommes with more of a mean or cruel side. I also mention I'm open to newer or less-experienced Dommes because I'm a good sub to explore things with because there's really no pressure to do things any one way -- I'm eager to submit and do whatever appeals to you.

Some of the kinks I'm into are service (doing whatever makes your life easier), power exchange, objectification, clothed female naked male (cfnm), rules or restrictions, orgasm control (edging, denial, forced), humiliating or embarrassing tasks, tedious or boring tasks, light cbt, light pain in general, light degradation, bladder control, begging, among other things. I'm not really into anal, and limits would be sounding, age play (including "mommy"), poop, blood, illegal, involving others offline.

I'm 38m, 5'9, 160lbs, short brown hair, brown eyes, tan, short beard. I'm single / no kids, and got out of a longish relationship not too long ago. I'm in the US EST. I like gardening, cooking, hiking, music, casual gaming. I'm stable in my life and my emotions, have a good career with a lot of responsibility, and I think that's probably a big part of why relinquishing control appeals to me.

I'm pretty open to who you are, as long as you're a reasonably mature cis-female, good at communicating, and interested in taking the lead as far as exactly where we take things from here. If that's you, I hope to hear from you.