I've always felt like whatever kind of relationship I'll get in would be an odd one. I know I'm different from most men and I don't mean that in a cocky way. I've been called cute a couple of times but obviously not in the conventional way most people would think. I am 5'2" and have been told I look relatively young for my age. I am Latino with an average physique but am told I look skinny. I have always been more on the gentle/introverted side, but I feel like I'm funny at times, sincere, and easy to get along with. At least I try to be. Honestly, I've come to accept my height more now than how I was growing up but I also know that it's definitely not in the norm and that's just the reality of it.
I guess the reason I said all of that is because I feel it plays a part in why I'm a switch and why I resonate a bit with gentle femdom (minus all the belittling/ humiliation/ degradation). You always hear opposites attract (whether everything turns out well or not is another story). While physical appearance is on the lower end of my list of things, I find myself more attracted to women who's physique are opposite of mine: being chubby or taller than me. I just think the size difference is cute and if she's confident about the difference, extremely attractive. A woman who is normally cute and sweet but who loves to tease when you least expect it would have my heart beating like crazy and I would be in a daze.
I like all the cute, heartwarming things like cuddling up together or running my hand through their hair. Just making each other person feel safe and have them melt in your arms, you know. Hopefully one day I'll meet someone like that in person and I'll be able to experience a lot of new things for the first time. But for the time being, I'm just looking for someone to bond and chat with. I'm hoping to meet someone I'd feel comfortable with and be able to learn a bit more about sexting.
Anyways, I'm sorry for writing so much but thank you for staying until the end! I'm honestly not sure what to expect but if you're lonely and I seem like someone you'd get along with, feel free to reach out and we can see where things could go from there.
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