Hi there! I’ve been really affection-starved & touch-starved a bit and i guess i'm yearning for intimacy & affection, but in a kind and caring and wholesome way. at the same time i’m looking for a connection & genuine friendship — someone with similar interests that i can yap to/with and vibe with platonically on an ongoing basis as well, in addition to maybe having some nsfw fun :,)

i do want to be upfront — because of recent events (feel free to ask me for more info!) i'm not ready for / looking for a proper relationship, but i’d still love to get to know you hopefully as a lasting friend!

a bit about me! - i'm 20, amab, east asian, 5'10, have an average build, and long hair. - i’m bi! 💖💜💙 but i prefer women and ppl who aren’t cis men bc of past experiences. - i'm a huge nerd :D and hopeless romantic :,) i'm a bio student, but i love classical music, literature (capital R Romantics <3), photography, tea & coffee, wine, and picking up random hobbies :) my taste in music is tchaikovsky, rachmaninoff, dvorak, and sibelius, but also mitski, hozier, lamp, and arctic monkeys! oh and also i love cats. of course i love cats. lol :D - i love chilling in the park when it's not too warm outside, or going for coffee runs, or cooking at home, or lying in bed & binging youtube or TV shows! (to give you a bit of an idea, my youtube explore page is covered in frankfurt symphony, tom scott, and david tennant content lol) i also enjoy cuddles, kisses, gentle intimacy, and lots of other stuff like that :) (ask me if your curious or want to know more :D)

a bit about you, hopefully :)

around my age, also a bit silly goofy & a bit of a nerd, and hopefully a bit of a hopeless romantic too :,) this is tagged M4F mostly because of past experiences with men, but if you don't identify as F, i'd still love to hear from you! :) that said, all genders are welcome!! but keep in mind (esp. to men) that i’m not looking to just hook up! ;)

i’m located in downtown toronto, so if you're interested, i'd love to get to know you! tell me a bit about yourself and your interests and what you’re looking for, and maybe come take a chance on me :D