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I'm a successful 34 year old living in the city - I've been involved in kink for nearly 15 years and have experience from short fun sessions to long term relationships. I have my own place with a preference for hosting.

Outside kink, my professional life takes a lot of my time, but I enjoy seeing the world, meeting new people, and experiencing new things - 30 countries visited so far. I'm a sucker for a good cocktail and love exploring the city in the summer (though virtual is perfectly fine!).

I'm looking for something longer term that can build up with elements of lifestyle change and control - I want to know your orgasms belong to me, and that you can come to me for help making decisions. There's also a list of more... advanced things I'm interested in:

• Transition to anal only/mostly
• Trained to be a piss drinker
• Orgasm control and denial
• Being shared, being exhibited (as almost a form of art), or being a topless server
• Inducing lactation, or other otherwise an extreme focus on tits that may include things like pain
• Being restrained and displayed (or being restrained in general)

These are approaching the more extreme for a lot of people, and my kinks don't have to be your kinks - safe, consensual, sane play is important to me and I value discretion above all else - what happens between us, stays between us, and I will never ask you to do anything that would harm you, your personal life, or your career. I respect limits, to an extreme, so if you don't fit in the above buckets, don't consider that an automatic disqualifier - let's talk about what you're into.

If you're interested in one or more of the above (or submitting / BDSM in general), tell me a bit about you when you reach out - age, which of the above or what outside the above you're interested in, why it interests you/level of experience (new to kink is absolutely welcome), and the word "apple" so I know you read through.

Best of luck in all your searches.