About me

Ahoy, hoy!

I am a early 30's, former film maker turned IT wizard with dry sense of humor that's marinated in goofiness. Standing at 5'6" with a moderate-slim build, a light beard and dark hair; I am softly spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. I am also a non-smoker and a rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, patience, kindness and (emotional) intelligence. I am Irish, living in Dublin, but will consider traveling or hosting in a hotel room with the right person. DDF, single and looking for the same.

I am soft in the streets and even softer in the sheets. I like to give love through gentle acts of service and quality time, but secretly receptive to compliments and a playful touch, so make of what you will with this knowledge. 😘

Verification available upon request, but I expect to know a little bit about you first. Take this as your queue to tell me about yourself and what caught your eye! In the interest of saving my time as well as yours, low-effort messages go straight to the bin.

How people would describe me

Friendly observers recognise me as a kind, calm, intelligent, "really decent", organised, diplomatic, sincere and pragmatic person - But please feel free to take these for what they're worth. I was also once banned by a mod for "being too cute".

What I'm looking for

Up until recently, I've been patiently looking for my person. Since my curiosity is getting the better of me, I would like to meet the right person who will take their time with me, is open-minded, gentle, warm and patient - Especially when it comes to intimacy. I haven't really had opportunities to develop a meaningful connection that potentially led to giving or receiving pleasure, but I am eager to learn how to please, content with taking direction, exploring touch and satiating cravings. Preferably a non-smoker who is okay with taking things slow and being the big spoon. I really have a soft spot for soft, kind and smart goofballs. 🥺

Even we don't end up fumbling under the sheets - I'd be delighted to get to know you to see if we click in other ways. Totally down for chilling and sharing hot chocolate together or something. I want us both to feel comfortable before we might explore touch, and I hope you do too.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 🦊