Hi there :) 33 married man located in Connecticut. Like most of us here I am not getting what I need in the bedroom at home. It’s not a dead bedroom — wife & I have good sex a few times per month — but my sex drive is much higher than hers (I prefer to orgasm twice a day if I can) and there are many things I’d like to try or be doing in bed that she is not open to.

I’d like to find a redditor to have fun with online when I’m horny & frustrated at home! I am envisioning this as an online-only FWB. I confess that I have tried to meet up with people IRL, and even found a handful of people I could have met for real, but I’ve chickened out each time. I don’t have the constitution to sleep with someone who isn’t my wife. But I’m too sexual not to look for some excitement elsewhere.

About me: 5’11”, 195lbs, white, bearded, brown hair brown eyes, broad shoulders, moderate body hair. College educated, employed full time, clean, hygienic, vaccinated. My favorite type of sex is oral; I LOVE eating pussy and prefer blowjobs to intercourse (just slightly, lol). I am also into dirty talk, foreplay, panties/lingerie, sneaky sex, group sex, and more.

About you: I am pretty open to most ages (18 ), racial & ethnic backgrounds, relationship statuses, body types, and “looks” or “types.”

I am fairly picky about three qualities, however:

1) the best hours for me to be online are 10pm to 1am, Eastern Standard Time, so if you’re in my time zone, please also be a night owl who is active at that time. If you’re in another time zone that’s fine, but hopefully your free time matches mine. If you’re on the west coast, for example, you’d need to be free between your 7pm and 10pm.

2) I strongly prefer to chat with people who speak English as their first language. A lot gets lost in translation when you’re sexting with someone who primarily speaks Spanish, French, or another language. A lot of sexting, to me, is about specificity, which is easier when both people are truly fluent in English.

3) Pictures — I don’t send pics immediately (usually), but I send them fairly quickly. Please also be willing to send pictures of yourself once we’ve established some comfort and trust.

Hoping to hear from someone fun :)