Hey there. Demisexual and gentle dom here. I'm looking for a worthwhile partner to get to know, to get comfortable with, and then do sexy stuff together.

Why should you be my partner in sin? A bit about me:

• I am white, 5'11, lightly beardy and (I'm told) other pleasant features, slender but I've clearly seen the inside of a gym. I’m a very successful professional, of the 9-5 sort.
• I am married and ethically non-monogamous. My spouse is not involved, but aware of proceedings.
• I'm looking for hot dates and fun times, beyond any sexual dynamics. As a demisexual, I'm really only comfortable banging someone I genuinely like and care about, and that needs its own time to cultivate!
• I value connection and caring, and I am told that I have a high EQ to make it work. I'm interested only in mid- to long-term.
• I am intensely fond of caregiving, fawning, doting, gifts, giving praise, and just generally being supportive for everyone in my life, be it platonic friends or otherwise. I particularly enjoy it in a meaningfully connected sexual dynamic, of course, but I endeavor to be kind and giving to everyone in my life.
• I'm big on self-improvement, empowerment, and encouragement. Whatever your particular struggles in life are, I'd like to hear them, and I'd like to see you to overcome them.
• I enjoy hedonism, and basking in life's pleasures. Sex, obviously, but food, beauty, and so on. I enjoy sharing that with someone special; I want you to indulge yourself, your pleasures and your joys. What makes you happy?
• I tend towards nerdy inclinations, interests, and hobbies. I get along best with those who share those in some degree.

And a bit more on my kink stuff:

• Technically, I'm a switch, though I'm mostly interested in exercising my dom side here. That said, well, if you also enjoy putting stuff into other people's butts, mine would certainly be accommodating.
• I enjoy being dominant, but in a gentle fashion. While I will control and direct, as needed, my "ideal partner" is a service sub whom needs no direction, for they know just how to serve. I'm big on praise and appreciation, and I don't like degradation, humiliation, or anything in that vein.
• Obviously, I'm looking for a buttslut here, but any level of experience, including none, is acceptable. I'm happy to help you with training, if need be, and I am determined to make putting my dick in your butt (among other things) something you crave.
• Some other kinks include spanking, toys, female masturbation, overstimulation and forced orgasms, begging and pleading (for cum, especially), spanking, light bondage, enthusiasm, and happy, satisfied partners.
• I like getting inside your dirty head. A game that I'm fond of with my subs is that I'd like to be informed any time they get off, have a new fantasy they came up with, or when they find porn or erotica they particularly like. I want to know and keep in tune with what makes your bits tingle and drip.

If this sounds like your sort of thing, drop me a reddit PM. Tell me much about yourself, what you appreciate about the things that I have offered, and what else you might hope to get out of our time together. Consider this your first instruction.