Hello dear reader, I'm a man based in London looking for a friendship with benefits with a woman older than myself, 30 if a person with those sorts of tastes is on here. I'm mixed race (tan complexion, mostly Jamaican heritage), generally slim/toned, about 5ft 10 and if its important, I have a 6 inch cut member. I'd say I'm good looking, though I'm often called cute rather than handsome which means if you're more into the manly, burly macho man then alas, that's not a niche I can fulfil.

I'm based in South London, unable to host due to living with family still (Blast this accursed economy) but I can travel all over the city and would be up for splitting a room should worst come to worst. Happy to do a social meet to make sure we get on if you'd prefer, too. Though I'd typically only be around on Friday evenings or weekends as I work as a teaching assistant (weekends being the most ideal). So unless you're gonna wait for the Half-Term or something I wouldn't be around on a weekday.

I'd ideally want this to be a friendship with benefits with some level of actual rapport rather than just the making of the beast with two backs, as much as I enjoy it, sex is a hell of a lot better with someone you gel well with. I'm generally a geek who loves the typical crap, anime and games but I do enjoy swimming, cycling, documentaries, true crime and (un)solved mysteries so hopefully we could bond over one of those, or who knows, maybe my oh-so charming personality could win you over? ;) Hahaha

I don't smoke (gave that up at the end of July) but I am a social drinker, admittedly more of a home body unless I've got something fun to do with the right company so I'd be more at home chilling with a good movie/show while spooning or at a chill pub that raving and partying like it's 1999. Doesn't help that wrangling kids most days exhausts like an Olympic sport!

I'm single and would prefer someone else who is over an open relationship/throuple/side piece sort of thing. Anyway if I've somehow interested, let me know your details and I'll send a pic along and as long as my looks dont offend, hopefully we can arrange something down the line!