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With the rise in popularity of dating apps it seems people have started to view relationships as disposable. A minor disagreement in the first month, block and ghost. They don't like the same genre of music, block and ghost. They wore a green hat and you don't like green or hats, swipe left. Why settle for less than perfection when there are an infinite amount of choices available right in your pocket?
I don't believe that is the healthiest way to deal with relationships. So I propose to do what our parents and grandparents, and their parents and grandparents did all through history. Wind up pregnant and then have no choice but to work hard at building and maintaining a stable relationship so the child can have a healthy home life. Seem drastic? Definitely. But it is incentive.
If two near strangers can bond while making it through pregnancy hormones, birth, and the first few months of raising a kid then their bond is going to be pretty solid. Also want to note I'm fully open to AI if we want to wait for intimacy until the relationship has been established.
About me: 6', WM, nerdy, bearded, glasses, graduate degree, live on my own and keep up a house, have a good job. Not afraid of changing diapers. Likes classical music, classic rock, and country music. More traditional. Like most of my generation I like HP a bit too much. Love the How It's Made and Modern Marvels series. Unapologetic about wanting the Oak Island guys to find buried Templar treasure down the Money Pit. Looking to buy a house next year. Introvert. Fat but working on it.
I recognize this idea is crazy, but if you're up for giving it a shot I'd love to hear from you.
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