Hello there,

I am a highly educated, witty, confident, dominant who would love to find a fellow open minded amazing woman to connect with. Building a friendship in which we could grow together and explore would be ideal, communication and trust being the solid foundation.

About (vanilla) me

• I take care of myself, workout regularly (but not obsessively), eat healthy, and most people comment I look way younger than I actually am.
• I have a successful career. I work in tech at a senior position for a consulting company. Absolutely love what I do and find it extremely fulfilling. I could probably go on about my job for ages, but I won't bore you with the details. Yet.
• I'm a laidback person in general, and usually get along with most people. Not easily offended. Family oriented.
• I love to cook! I try to cook as many of my meals as possible, and can cook a wide variety of cuisines and dishes. And I recognize I'm not being very humble here, but I think the food I cook is super tasty!
• I watch a ton of shows and movies! My favorite way to relax on a Friday night is to put on a newish movie while sipping on a nice cocktail. I'm into several fandoms, including MCU, DC, Star Wars, etc.
• I love to game, and own a PS5, Xbox, and a Switch. PS5 is my favorite though.
• If you couldn't already tell, I'm very geeky and even own a couple of lightsabers, among other things.

About (kinky) me

• I have been a Dom nearly a decade, online and in-person. Though I'm only looking for in-person partners at the moment.
• I like to keep it in the bedroom only, and not one for a 24/7 dynamic. Though of course I'd love to hangout and take my partner out on dates.
• I've been described as an understanding, caring, but firm Dom.
• I'm extremely open minded, and believe in the philosophy of trying everything at least twice.
• I have many kinks, but some of my favorites are orgasm control/denial, ass play, anal, spanking, impact play, stretching, cnc, fisting, freeuse, and figging.
• Boundaries are important to me, and I never push any kink on anyone if they're not into it. Communication is always very important to me.

What I'm looking for

Ideally, I'd like a longterm dynamic with someone. What that dynamic shapes up to be, I'm more flexible about. I'm a fan of letting things progress naturally. So I'd love to get to know you and seeing where it goes. I am a straight male and looking for someone local.

If you do decide to message me, I expect more than a "hi". I put some effort into my post, and I expect the same. Tell me a little about you, perhaps mention what kinks have been on your mind in the last week or so? I do expect some substance!

Thanks!