Hello everyone. I've been a long time user of reddits and have been away on a hiatus for several years. I'm ready to dip my toes back into the communities here and make posts again. This particular post might go on the long side, so I’ll give you a quick TLDR to help you busy people decide if you want to read more.

TLDR:

I am a well-rounded happy individual looking to connect with another well-rounded happy individual for FLR. It would be amazing to find someone to enhance each other’s lives with our connection. These things don’t happen overnight, so I’ve written a giant personal ad trying to give an accurate picture and left the kinks until the end.If you made it through the TLDR I am excited and hope you find my post to be enjoyable.

About me:

Because looks do matter to some extent I’ll start there. I am a 28-year-old, 6’ tall, and a 24.5 BMI (180 lbs.) for the hard number folks. I’ve currently gotten a beard, which I get mixed feedback on. Some people love it, other people thing my jawline is more aesthetically pleasing. I keep my head shaved because the long luscious locks gene was horded by my father and grandfather. My eyes are light brown that you can get lost in like a warm pan of brownies. Based on that description you probably have a picture of someone in your mind, who probably looks nothing like me. Fingers crossed I'm better looking than you imagined. ;P

These descriptions are hard. If we start chatting and it seems like you are not a serial killer, I’ll just send you a photo, that is way easier!In my every day I do computer research. I took my career advice from the internet and learned how to code, so now I do that. I do really love my work, but I keep it separate with a great work life balance.

When I'm doing that life balance part of that work-life balance, I am in a faraway castle waiting for my princess charming to send me an orange envelope. Until that time comes, I do a lot of reading, going on walks away from population centers, listening to podcasts, and exercising. The things I like to read involve books on the topics I study, mystery novels, and historical books. Hiking is also something I really enjoy as well. Nature is so beautiful, and you can get to really great places on your own two feet. The podcast I have been listening to is the Last Podcast On The Left and How Did This Get Made. They are both funny, though the first one can be a bit annoying at times. To combat the sedentary lifestyle a lot of computer nerd I’ve made time to work out for health reasons. The compliments I get on how my arms do better hugs is also a plus.

In past relationships I have been described as sweet, caring, and cute. Unfortunately, many past relationships have ended because both of us want the other one to take the lead. This leads into my next section.

What I am looking for:

I’m really looking to find someone who can add to my life and I can add to theirs. A person with who I can team up with to make an unstoppable duo. Someone I share mutual interests and attraction with. A best friend, a confidant, and a leader. In my everyday life I am independent and seen as quite an outspoken individual. In relationships I’d much rather defer to my partner. A woman who enjoys taking the lead and asking for what she wants is ideal. An aggressive woman is desirable.Someone who is likewise ambitions and loves to lave would be most compatible. A woman who is confident and direct and knows what she wants or is not afraid to find out what she wants is wonderful. A strong partner in a relationship is wonderful .To get to this level I’d like to start off by getting to know people personally.

Chatting on reddit for a few messages is preferred. As we get more comfortable, we can continue communication through texting or e-mailing then phone and video calls. Ultimately, I would like to develop an in person real life relationship. To achieve this, I am most open to people in the US.Kinks (Finally some juice stuff right?:)

I’ve read enough to know what is available and know what appeals to me, but I am always open to explore with a partner. My biggest kink is pleasing people. Knowing I have made someone else happy through service gives me an incredibly warm feeling, most acutely when the person in question is ‘my person’. Other things I know I enjoy are bondage, restraints, body worship, serving, collars and leads, orgasm control. The pumpkin spice of BDSM is all in my wheelhouse. For more in depth conversations into kink we’ll have to chat one on one. A little mystery never hurt anyone anyways :P

If you have made it to the end of this post, I want to say thank you for taking the time to read. If you enjoyed the message I would love to hear from you, letting me know if you share a similar interest, if you liked the post, or even hated the post (even better if you constructively hate on the post) feel free to send me a message. Anyone who takes time to write me will get a response because I am so excited that you took the time to engage.

Happy Saturday and fingers crossed for an exciting weekend for us both!