Hey everyone, I’m a 23-year-old dominant woman from California, and I’m feeling a bit lonely in my quest to find like-minded submissive men. I know arcades can be a good spot, but I’m looking to expand my horizons and would love some advice from this community.
A bit about me: I’ve always had a dominant streak, and after a few relationships, I realized I feel most comfortable and fulfilled in a dominant role. It’s not just about the bedroom stuff; it’s about the whole dynamic, the respect, the trust, and the unique bond that comes with it.
I’m pretty outgoing and love exploring different social scenes. I’m into fitness, so I spend a good amount of time at the gym, and I’m also a bit of a nerd, often found in bookstores or cafes with my nose in a book. But finding submissive men in these places has been tricky.
So, where else should I be looking? Have any of you had success meeting submissive guys in specific places or events? Any tips on how to approach or identify them would be super helpful.
A funny story: I once tried to strike up a conversation with a guy at a coffee shop by asking if he’d ever been to any BDSM events. Turns out, he had no idea what I was talking about and thought I was inviting him to some sort of tech convention! Awkward, but we ended up laughing about it.
I’d love to hear your experiences and advice! Thanks in advance.
TL;DR: I’m a dominant 23-year-old woman looking for suggestions on where to meet submissive men apart from arcades. Feeling a bit lonely in this search and would love some tips on where to go and how to approach. Any help is appreciated!
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