Being that I am attached and looking for extracurricular play without their knowledge/consent, my priority is to find someone I'm compatibility with, with 'immediate availability' holding for less significance. However, a compatible match, in my mind, isn't merely someone willing to engage physically, nor someone I'm solely attracted to on a physical level. I am seeking out a woman who is in a similar situation to mine (or, at the very least is comfortable with my circumstances if single), where we could formulate a long-standing genuine friendship, build a foundation of trust, as well as nurture our thriving sexual chemistry.

My stats: I'm 6'1", about 220 lbs, Caucasian, uncut and decently 'sized'. My desire for physical compatibility is an important element, but appreciating the personality of the individual I'm seeing has always dictated longevity within my FWB relationships. My sex drive is high and as a result, I typically recharge fairly quickly. I enjoy giving and receiving oral, touching, and finger play. I'm open to providing anal as well, should this be something you like to incorporate into your sex life. I often intensely get off to my partner cumming, I enjoy communication within the bedroom to ensure both parties are fulfilled, and engaging in bareback play (ie. filling you regularly) would be the expectation; I am drug and disease free, seeking the same from any prospective FWB.

With a large focus placed on the synergy between a viable FWB and myself, the hope is to establish a connection with someone I both enjoy engaging sexually, as well as developing a genuine friendship with between meet-ups. I'd describe myself as generally easy going, I don't take myself too serious, I'm moderately sarcastic, and I have a strong sense of self. I'm drama-free and usually available on weekends, pre-arranged weekday daytime hours and weekday evenings (directly after work), but I won't always be available on a whim. I'd love to get to know you, pick your brain, and hopefully gain a great person in my life. As one would gather, discretion would be a must, especially considering that I am not looking to change my situation.

While raw physical attraction is important in this type of relationship, I don't have a specific 'type' in mind. Typically, I find myself most attracted to chubby/thick women with larger natural breast, between 30-50 years old, and within Caucasian, Arab, or black ethnicities. However, this is more to provide scope on whom I'm habitually drawn to rather than set a firm criteria on which demographics I'm aiming for. Mutual attraction aside, what will equally matter is how well we mesh based on our sexual needs lining up, clicking on a personal level, and mutual trust. I'd like to exchange photos, see if mutual attraction is present, come to navigate your personality, get a firm grasp of each other's needs, and ultimately see if there is a long-term fit.

If you made it through the dry read and what I'm pursuing potentially lines up with what you are searching for, feel free to DM me.

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