I've always been a unique one. Part of it is the neurodivergence but it goes deeper than that. In the past, I've even been called a living dichotomy: Well-liked and charismatic yet quite introverted, an excellent leader yet less desire to lead, a deep, commanding voice yet caring and sensitive, and extremely empathetic yet sadistic with kinks. Duality is a part of who I am.

Overall, I'm a loving, intelligent man with a penchant for the nerdy pursuits. I live a quiet, stable life and am looking for someone to share it with. My favorite nerdy pursuits generally have to do with tabletop and video games, typically gravitating towards a well-developed story and characters. Baldur's Gate 3 and Elden Ring have been some of my recent favorites. As far as tabletop games go, I'm super into D&D with two groups currently, along with whatever other card and board games when I can. Other hobbies I have include but are not limited to, cooking, cocktail making, science, and overall just learning new things.

On the kinky side, I'm generally dominant and a sadist though I do have a handful of interests more indicative of a switch. Perfectly happy being purely dominant, however. I have a good amount of experience with the most being in ddlg or brat taming type dynamics. My kinks tend to be on the harder side. Some examples in no particular order are physical and emotional sadism, impact, spanking, stretching, anal, orgasm control, and cnc. That being said, I am quite adaptive and don't necessarily need everything.

Ideally I am looking for a serious, long-term, monogamous relationship with a compatible woman both in life and with kinks. In life, I get along best with fellow neurodivergents and nerds. For kinks, the more that are shared, the better. I am open to a more TPE type dynamic but it is by no means required. As for distance, I'm fine with an ldr for the time being so long as it's not indefinite. The closer to Oregon, the better though.

I have an "about me" post here with more specifics since this is already running long. Please don't hesitate DM me if this piques your interest!