Hey there! Looking to meet some awesome local women who want to hang out and have some good times and better sex. I'm sober and not a fan of the clubs scene so the typical avenues to dating have always been pretty foreign to me. Add to that getting over a series of physical and emotional health issues for the past decade or more and you've got a recipe for a guy who hasn't been able to get out there and date much. And every time I've tried to via dating apps has been met with pretty much nothing but being ghosted, stood up, scammed, and otherwise rejected. But I've spent some time focusing on myself and trying to make improvements and I'm feeling ready to try again, just in a different capacity. So here I am!

For the sake of privacy and the protection of my personal life and career I won't share my name or a picture along with this post; I'll save those for private messages. Rest assured, though, I will provide both for the sale of verification and expect the same from anyone who reaches out. Some notes to give you at least an idea of what you're working with, though: I'm 27 years old, 6'1" tall, and currently weigh 230 lbs but that's been a roller coaster depending on if I'm currently strict about my diet and and exercise routine. I'm white, but I have no preference as to the race of my partner. I've got brown hair that's showing signs of thinning at the back so I'm letting it grow long for the time being and planning on shaving it off when it gets really bad. My beard continues to come in just fine, though, and I like to keep that trimmed short. My dick is close to 7" and is pretty thick, putting me solidly above average. I take care of my hygiene, showering 1-2 times a day and brushing my teeth regularly. I don't always manage to work out every day but I love walking and always manage to hit a daily goal of at least doing that much to keep myself healthy. I also don’t drive, so that adds to the amount of walking I do while also reducing the range I can reach for meetups. But I do have a place of my own in Oakland, if any potential partners don’t want to use their own space.

Besides going for walks I've been trying to run more lately and I like to do yoga frequently and Pilates slightly less so. Wouldn't mind having a partner for any of those! Other hobbies include reading, board games, video games, and watching TV and movies. Honestly don't have a ton of time for hobbies these days between work and trying to work out more, but I squeeze them in whenever I can to try and keep myself sane. I'm also a huge history nerd and a big fan of museums, so if you are too that would be excellent!

Now what about you? I'm not looking for something super serious, just a good friend who I can hang out with and also enjoy some mutual sexual satisfaction with. So we don't need to have every interest in common, but more than one would be great to have a list of non-sex activities we could do together on occasion. I'm into a pretty wide variety of body types, just generally nothing too over or under weight for one's size. I'll take thick thighs and healthy curves to thin and fit and everything in between! Preferably you're not seriously involved with someone else already, unless your partner is aware and comfortable with it. And hopefully you're into sweet, dorky guys who are somewhere between millennial and Gen z but act like they're more like Gen x.

Okay, sorry, that's a lot! If you've read through, thank you so much for taking the time. If you like what you've read and want to reach out please tell me a little about yourself: your age, interests, sexual preferences, and anything else you think is important. If you don't want to describe yourself physically, a picture will do. Show as much or as little as you're comfortable with, and I'll return in kind. I promise I'll reply to any and all serious responses to this ad.

Guys out there: I'll be flattered by any attention you might show but you'll be ignored. Couples: you might be considered but I make no guarantees. Any suggestions or offers to pay for anything will be reported.

Thank you all so much for your time! Sorry again for the length of this, I'm just trying to be as clear and thorough as possible. At the end of the day we all want a little loving and I'm just trying to get mine while being as polite and understanding as possible.