Hello and depending on when you are reading this. Good evening. This might be a bit of a different post than usual. But i am looking for something a bit different.

Who am i?

A 30 year old guy from the south of The Netherlands. I stand about 1.85 tall. Green eyes. Long dark blonde hair. Like to stay in shape. I consider myself a soft dom. But with a mischievous and strict touch. I have about 10 years of serious online and offline experience. I prefer a style of dominance that is more kind and nurturing. I can be loving and caring but at the same time i will keep you on a strict leash. But usually i am quick to praise and slow to punish.

What am i looking for?

In all the years of me being in the kink world, there was always one thing that stood out to me. Petplay. Wether you are a naughty pupper looking to be owned or an seductive kitten in need of a caretaker. There is something about petplay that isn't present in other kinks. Something that is more pure. More raw. More primal. So i prefer someone that also has petplay on their kink list. I am looking for someone that wants to build a bit of a connection first. And eventually wants to transfer into doing sessions in real life. Maybe it will stay with online play. Maybe it will end in a session or two. Or maybe it will evolve into a full D/s dynamic. The point is. I am looking for someone that is serious about commiting to something. I take my dynamics very serious and i expect the same from my partners. Wether you are looking for some fun. A session. A power dyanmic. Or maybe a S/d dynamic. Female. Trans. Femboy. Everyone is welcome.

Safety:

While it is fun and all to engage into kinky play. Safety should always be present on the foreground. Whenever i post i always get a decent amount of people messaging me that say the don't have limits. And are only looking for a quick way to get off. Everyone has limits. And saying you don't is a big red flag for me. I am looking for something real and organized here and i NEVER engage in a session without taking safety into consideration. There are certain things i cannot and will not do without. 1. Mutual respect. 2. Trust. 3. Honesty and respecting boundaries and above all 4. Aftercare. Aftercare is in my opinion one of the most important aspects of any good dynamic. As depraved as a session can be. Afterwards there should always be room to share thoughts. Listen and cuddle if needed. Safety and trust will always be held in high regard. And building a foundation on these things is important to me.

Location:

I am currently living in the south of The Netherlands. I would say my direct circle of searching extends to The Netherlands. Germany and Belgium. So if you live in either of those countries feel free to send me a message.

Now i do realize that this is probably a small chance. But maybe out there is somebody that dares to take the plunge. Willing to jump into a new adventure with me.

If any of this has peaked your interest. Feel free to contact me. Thank you for reading and my apologies for any grammar mistakes.