Hi. I'm a 43-year-old man. I'm single, and not looking for a romantic relationship. Nevertheless, I have trouble falling asleep alone.
So I'm looking for a woman to do semi-regular sleep calls with.
I'm looking for a woman who I can call around 11 pm - 1 am US East Coast time every few night during the week so we can talk a bit and fall asleep together. For sleep calls, I like to be very affectionate and cuddly - having someone I can be that way with helps me fall asleep.
There can also be a sexual component to the sleep calls if you'd like - and not if you don't. What's most important to me is to find someone I can fall asleep with and be affectionate to. And even if things do get sexual, I'm not the kind of guy who needs to be sexual all the time.
If you'd like to know a bit about me, I'm 43, born, raised, and living in Florida, a liberal, an Aquarius, and an INTP.
I'm an introvert, naturally shy but learned how to handle it, and enjoy hearing someone's voice when nights start to get lonely. I'm a bit of a geek. My first console was the NES, and my last one was the Wii; now, I only have PC games, but have little time to play them. I don't play multiplayer games - just single player ones. I've wanted to be a writer since I was young, and now I write short films, short plays, and short stories. I read comic books and watched cartoons as a kid, and I have no problem doing so as an adult. I don't have time to read books much anymore, but I do listen to audiobooks when I have a long enough drive. Usually, they're fantasy, sci-fi, alternate history, military history, or historical non-fiction. I can talk endlessly about movies. I love genre movies, thrillers and horror. I own at least 500 blu rays and DVDs. The current tv shows I'm most amped for are The Bear and House of the Dragon. I love the TNG era Star Trek shows. I love the original and prequel trilogies for Star Wars, and the Legends comic books. Babylon 5 is one of my favorite shows of all time. True Detective season 1 is the best television of all time. What I stream most is Youtube videos, though. I'm also into tabletop roleplaying games. I'm into D&D 3.5 and 4e, Call of Cthulhu, old World of Darkness, Chronicles of Darkness, and a couple of obscure games and generic systems. Reddit is the only social media I have.
What am I looking for?
A woman who can be nice and empathic is preferred. One who can give and receive affection while understanding I'm not looking for a relationship would be great. Someone who doesn't mind me just listening to them when I'm feeling shy would wonderful as well. A woman who has passions would be great too.
I'm also a Dominant, and have been since I was 19, so submissives and switches can feel free to contact me if you'd like. But I've also been interested in experimenting with gentle / pleasure Dommes. But please understand I'm not looking for a sexual only dynamic. I'm looking for someone I can talk to, someone I can fall asleep with, and someone who can receive and give affection. And if you're a Domme, someone I can trust, which takes time for me. So please be willing to take that time if you're a Domme.
I don't mind if you're older than I am, younger than I am, or close in age to me. As long as you're 18 or older.
Here's a sample of what my voice sounds like, for those curious:
I'd really appreciate it if you could send me a voice sample as well.
So if this interests you, feel free to send me a chat or DM.
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