Hello and depending on when you are reading this. Good evening. This might be a bit of a different post than usual. But i am looking for something a bit different.
Who am i?
A 30 year old guy from The Netherlands. I stand about 1.85 tall. Green eyes. Dark blonde long hair. I do like to stay in shape. I consider myself a soft dom. But with a mischievous and strict touch. I have about 10 years of serious online and offline experience now. Usually i prefer a style that is more kind and nurturing. But even the softest doms have a dark side. And sometimes that dark side wants to come out.
I have no problem in verifying myself before hand.
What am i looking for?
In all the years of me being in the kink world. There is one thing that always stood out for me. And that is petplay. Wether you are a naughty pupper looking to be owned or a seductive kitten in need of a caretaker. There is something really special about petplay that isn't present in other kinks. Something that is more raw. More pure. More primal. So i prefer someone that also has petplay on their kink list. . Looks do not matter for me. I want someone real and serious. I want someone that is not afraid to embrace her inner desires. Both experienced and new to the world of kink are welcome.
The encounter:
- This is just one scenario. A different scenario can be discussed.
The big moment. Arrival. We will meet at a pre determined place. And here you are. Such a good girl. Planning to surprise your boyfriend. Why? Because you are sweet as can be. There is a bag. And in that bag you will find everything you need for the surprise. A collar. A tailplug. Some stockings. Animal ears. Whatever. Everything to turn you into a good pet. You put everything on. And you follow it up with your most seductive pose. You tell yourself that he is in for a big surprise. You are smiling. For now. Suddenly the door opens and i step inside. You look up and you face turns to fear. ''Who are you?'' ''Where is my boyfriend?'' ''This is a mistake.'' I close the door. "Oh this is no mistake dear. We are gonna have a little fun.''
I will grab you. I will put you on a leash. I will tie you up and force you down. You are gonna crawl. You are gonna beg. You are gonna bark and meow. I will slap you. I will tease you. I will force my cock down your throat. You are gonna gag. You are gonna cry. You are gonna tell me why. I will scold you and i will praise you. I will force you. I will edge and deny you. You are gonna be degraded. You are gonna be humiliated. You are gonna be teased and denied. And i? I am gonna enjoy every bit of it.
The location:
I am currently living in the south of The Netherlands. But i can travel easily. I would say my direct travel distance extends to The Netherlands. Germany and Belgium. So if you live in either of those countries, feel free to shoot me a message. The rest of europe is also cool. But obviously this will take longer to arrange. We could hook up at a pre determined place near you. near me or somewhere in between.
Safety:
While it is fun and all to engage in kinky play. Safety should always be on the foreground. I am looking for something real and organized here. I NEVER engage in a session without taking safety into consideration. There are certain things i cannot and will not do without. 1. Mutual respect. 2. Trust. 3. Honesty. 4. Respecting boundaries. I take my sessions very serious and i expect the same from my partners. I do not want to immediately go into a session. I require at least some talk and connecting first. It is very important that everything is gonna be discussed beforehand. Kinks. Limits. Boundaries. And above all. A safe word. I always work with a safe word. Once we are both completely informed about eachothers wishes and we understand our roles in this little roleplay. Only then will we proceed with play time.
Kinks:
I have an entire list of kinks that i am familiar with. Petplay. Anal. Toys. Degrading. Worshipping. Praising. Training. Humiliation. Teasing. Denial. Watersports. Breeding kink. BDSM. Bondage. Waxplay. Collaring. Roleplay. To name a few. Kinks and limits will be discussed beforehand. And hard limits will not be crossed. Everyone has limits. And someone that says otherwise is a red flag for me.
What happens after:
Well. That depends. I am a big believer of aftercare. And i do really think it is important to take this into consideration. Depending on how you feel and what you want. I can be as cold as ice and throw you back into the streets. But if you do have the need to talk about the session and to engage into certain aftercare rituals. I am more than willing to accomodate and help you with that.
Alright. If any of this has sparked something inside you and you want to talk more. Feel free to send me a message. I am looking forward to it. Thank you.
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