My formative years were spent in a chaotic environment, with little privacy and some amount of body shame for being so pale and skinny. So I basically never had the chance or the confidence to masturbate. Sure, I had wet dreams. But I kinda got used to feeling aroused but unsatisfied for extended periods. It was comforting in a weird way - still is.

By the time I was old enough to go out on my own (and move into the dorms), I already had a girlfriend that had explored chastity with me. I had some exposure to it before I met her and was intrigued, but I was surprised at how her interest seemed to grow over time rather than diminish. Her regular encouragement is a big part of why I went ahead and went through with a PA piercing, when I didn't even have my ears pierced, haha!

I have a locked-on, semi-permanent chastity piercing. I've been unable to cum or even get a full erection, for over a decade, and I definitely have some regrets. We can focus on whichever ones interest you most. Broadly speaking, my regrets fall into a few catgories. 1) Things I never would have done, were I not so sexually frustrated all the time. - I'm very straight, for instance, but pliable when teased. 2) Things chastity has changed about me. - I leak so much pre-cum, I have to wear pads, for example, but there are subtler changes to my behaviors. 3) Things chastity has taken from me. - Ugh, if you're an emotional sadist, we can dig into this one. Speaking of, my limits are incest and animals. And my kinks are, well... tease/denial, submission, humiliation, a bunch of stuff that comes with that.

I hope you're having a great night, and umm, slap my ass on the way out?