Hey there! I’m a young, fit, attractive guy who also enjoys trading steamy words online.

Today I’m feeling like chatting about BDSM, dom/sub relationships, and why we enjoy this power dynamic.

Sexting and roleplaying is also on the table.

A bit about me! If something is not included in this list feel free to ask, I’m open to discussing other kinks, and maybe I learn something new that I enjoy.

My favorite

• Domination: I love being in control. Not necessarily in a physical way, more in a “I command, you obey” kind of way. My doming style can range from soft and sweet, but firm, to rough, physically throwing you around kind of way. To me the hottest part of this is imposing my will, having control of the situation. Whoever, I would classify me as a pleasure dom. I do like ordering around, but most times it is to make you feel good, get you in a different position so that I can go deeper, that kind of commands. At times it will be all about me tho, it really depends on the mood and the scene.
• Orgasm/Pleasure control: More control! To me it’s super hot be in control of your pleasure, you being in the receiving end, submissive, and ready to cum for me. I just love feeling your body tense up, your breathing getting shorter and faster, until you release in a scream of pleasure, all thanks to me. I’ll set the rhythm, you would just obey and enjoy.
• Bondage: I think you are seeing the pattern here. Bondage goes hand in hand with my previous kinks, and it’s more than anything another tool in my arsenal to control the situation, make sure you are just where I want you, ready to be pleasured. To me bondage includes rope, wrist and ankle restrains, spreader bars, arm binders, collars, blindfolds, and gags.
• Foreplay: In my opinion a nice foreplay session is the key to a great orgasm. Feeling each other, sharing breaths, hands, skin, tongue exploring every inch of our bodies, the tension rising, begging to be released. Usually the longer the better, but this is not. Strict rule. Quickies also have their place.
• Cum: So, I mostly a giver, but when it comes my turn to, well, cum, I find it so hot to make a show out of it. Backshots, creampies, facials, filling you up. It’s such a strong and hot visual, it gets me horny and ready for a second round almost immediately.
• Blowjobs: My favorite way of being pleasured. I like them deep, sloppy, and dirty. Deep throats are amazing, and the wetter the better. To me blowjobs are not about the physical sensation, it’s more about the visual, and the fact that it makes me feel in control.
• Toys: I can do so many things with my mouth, my cock and my hands, but toys bring infinite possibilities to the table. They are so much fun! My favorite right now is a cock ring which vibrates. It gives me the strongest, longest lasting erections, all while doubling the pleasure my partner gets while being penetrated. My second favorite is a vibrator controlled remotely, which allows for some fun and hot situations, which brings me to…
• Public play: The risk, the adrenaline makes it even more exciting. If the coast is clear we could have a quick fuck or a nice blowjob, but in crowded places a remote controlled vibrator does the trick just as well. Try to stay serious while I control the intensity of your pleasure, all while acting nonchalant.

I enjoy

• Anal: It’s a different sensation, and I enjoy it, specially when it’s well lubricated and we take it sloooow at first, so that it doesn’t hurt.
• Group play: Threesomes are a huge fantasy of mine. Mainly FMF, but I would be down for some MFM action. All hands on deck!
• Spanking: With my hands, or with toys, I absolutely love the sound it makes. Even better when I am deep inside my partner, and she clenches in automatic response.
• Praising: I enjoy being a soft dom, telling you what a good girl you are, that you are doing great, and that you look so fucking hot while slurping in my cock, princess.
• Free use: Huge fantasy of mine. I would love to just use you whenever I want, and you are ready to take it.
• Dirty talk: Not just in a roleplaying sense, but I also love to talk dirty in casual conversation.

Also hot

• Humiliation
• Spitting
• Hair pulling
• Choking
• Cock worshipping
• Going down on you
• Rimming
• Rough sex
• Cuckqueanning

Limits

• Scat, water sports, and bodily fluids: The only exception is cum, as indicated in my kink list.
• Harsh Pain: I don’t enjoy inflicting long lasting pain. Spanking is okay, nipple torture is not (for me).
• Violence: It turns me off when things turn violent.
• Non-con: To me it’s hotter when we are both consenting. CNC would be okay tho.
• Age gaps: I don’t mind playing someone in his thirties or forties, but anything older than that would be a no go for me.
• Gore, vore, bestiality, illegal stuff: No kink shaming, it just doesn’t do it for me.

Pictures

I love trading pictures! It’s not a requisite, but I find it so much hotter when we have a glimpse of each other.

I won’t (and won’t ask you to) share pictures with identifying details, nor will send my face. To me it’s about our bodies.

I will gladly send pictures of myself, but if you ask me to I would love for it to be reciprocated.

Miscellaneous

As is common saying around here: My inbox is always open!

If anything of what I said resonates with you, feel free to reach out!

I prefer to chat through Reddit.