Me: 6’, 185lbs, fit, married dad, clean cut, typical professional, manager type. Mixed race (non-white). Looking for a first time M4M experience. Clean, DDF. No previous experiences. >25 years monogamous with current spouse.

You: Similar situation, similar age, wanting a similar experience.  Healthy.  Prefer a few extra pounds over hard bodies.

What we would do:

Go halves on a dayuse room. Get a clean, comfortable room during the day time – maybe late morning

Champagne or good beer for ice breaker.  Shower to get ready

You will lay down for a massage.  I will give you a nice, deep tissue massage with a good oil to get you deeply relaxed.  This being the first time, I won’t know my limits or preferences and neither will you.  So we will feel things out as they go.  I will be doing things that seem enjoyable to me.  After your whole body is relaxed, I will move to massaging your inner thighs and buttocks.  I will wash my hands and switch to lube for the crack.  Around this point, you are reaching for my rock hard cock and playing with it as you see fit and I am massaging the rim and erogenous zones of the anal sphincter and the whole area.  Gradually, I sense my finger going in. I see if you are enjoying this and if so, I am pushing my finger in to gently finger fuck you.  At this point, you are in so much pleasure that you are moaning and moving with my finger.  I gradually start fucking harder and harder and you seem to be in heaven.  At some point, I slow down, and drape myself over you and sense your pleasure through my skin. I am massaging you slowly with my whole body.  As we are doing this, the tip of my penis gets closer and closer to your anal opening.  Then the tip of my penis (the third eye) touches your opening and they kiss.  I sense a shiver go through your body.  I move up again and to let them kiss again.  We do this again and again and feel them kissing deeper and deeper each time.  I whisper in your ear and ask you to kiss me deeper.  You move to take more of the head in for a deeper kiss and eventually the head of penis is engulfed by your ass lips.  We move slowly and enjoy the feeling.  I sense the hunger in your ass lips as they gradually swallow more and more of me until we are fully together.  We keep rocking slowly for a good while, enjoying this feeling for the first time.  At some point, I put my arms around you and start thrusting harder and harder and harder and start to feel you convulse and have a full body anal orgasm.  The spasming of your body creates a massive suction that drives me to my orgasm.  I groan as I pump all my juices into you.  We take a good while to come down slowly from this high.  Eventually, we get up and go for another shower.  We roll back into bed for a rest and nap.  Then we get up and swap roles and repeat the steps with me laying down.