When I was growing up and they asked us what we wanted to be, my answer never changed. I wanted to be a Daddy.

More than anything, I wanted to get married and have a big family with two loving parents like the one I was raised in.

Now, as a grown man in my 30s, I find the kind of Daddy I want to be to mean two things. A father, but also a caretaker to my sub/little.

I did not relate to boys my age and people always assumed I was older because of how mature I am. I have always been very in touch with my emotions and enjoy sharing what is on my mind, how I am feeling, what I am thinking, and talking things out when there is a problem. While some men see being emotionally available as a weakness, I see it as one of my greatest strengths.

Exercise of some sort is important to me. While I’m not a “gym bro” of any sort, I do take long walks and occasionally lift to stay fit and lean. My preference for women has always been busty petite, short and lightweight with at least a handful of breasts that are perky. Looks aren’t everything to me but I need to be attracted to my partner.

I am well over 6ft, have a beard half the time or at least a 5 o’clock shadow, a full head of thick hair, a few tattoos and piercings I rarely wear anymore, and have been told I look like a combination of Cillian Murphy and Jim from The Office.

Outside of surface appearances, I need someone who is emotionally available and vulnerable. I am not interested in tearing down walls or being distrusted from the get-go. Building trust is important but, at least in my experience, starting with a foundation of implied trust and vulnerability will lead to a more fulfilling relationship down the road.

I know that some littles are not sexual in their little space and that is valid and okay. However my ideal little is sexual in her little space. My ideal little is traditionally feminine, enjoys (and is good at) cooking, is bisexual, has an open mind to new things, and wants a man they can look up to in shaping who they are without discarding who they are to do that.

If you have a lot of experience and think you have it all figured out, you probably are not the right fit for me. I would rather start a relationship with a woman who sees herself as a blank canvas, and desires the man she chooses to paint every inch with his knowledge and her needs in mind.

Inside the bedroom I like to play things by ear. Learn what my partner likes and how to best utilize that, while at the same time introducing new things in the process. I am both gentle and rough. My sadistic side is never violent or cruel but it is there and I believe through some pain and struggle you can find growth. With that being said, I also enjoy regular old vanilla sex. Cuddling is my favorite pastime. Aftercare is not only important but necessary.

If you are the type of woman to give yourself completely to someone, risking heartbreak because loving someone halfway is not in your nature, you are like me. If you find immense pleasure from seeing your partner enjoying himself, we are alike.

Family is the most important thing to be and I want you to become part of mine. I want to introduce you to my parents and siblings, bring you home for dinner on Thanksgiving and Christmas, and for you to do the same for me.

If you are not craving in every fiber of your being to become pregnant and start a family of your own, along with marriage, in the VERY near future… we are not a good match.

It is very important whoever I end up with enjoy being both a Mommy and a Little. Submissive to the core but switchy when Mommy mode kicks in.

We can discuss kinks more in private but I seek someone who is willing to try anything with enthusiasm and seek to please me, knowing my goal is to please you.

I have received a lot of messages, but 95% are low quality (less than a sentence). If you are serious about having a relationship, especially the kind I am looking for here, take the time to write about yourself and why you are messaging me.