About Me: I (27 M bisexual) and I work a demanding job in tech development. I used to swim quite a bit through college and have kept my lean physique through the past several years. I am looking to chat with a submissive male interested in this erotic topic.

My Dominance: I am psychologically interested in male submissiveness, and am clinical in how I treat erections. Erections are beautiful and powerful things to experience. I want to hear what makes my sub ache. What makes him frustrated.

The beauty of the erection is the knowledge that it is tamed, denied, and endured. I enjoy asking questions that encourage his arousal, while denying opportunity for release. Soft, perilous restraint, and discipline is the best way I have learned to tame a submissive male’s sperm.

A key article of clothing for me as a dominant are my tall English equestrian-style riding boots when chatting with my submissive male. The boots help remove me from the situation and provide me a level of protection from a sub’s angst and ache.

Your Submission: I am looking for a submissive male interested in a non-sexual arousal and defeat scenario. This means I am not interested in your release. I am interested in your ache, your restraint, and your obedience. I am looking for him to be comfortable with saying things like “please and thank you,” and “yes, Sir,” etc. Bonus points if you are older than me and ache for a 27yo dominant, in his tall riding boots with his legs crossed, to psychologically tame your sperm.

General Kinks/Interests: softcore BDSM, praise/encouragement, taming, rope bondage, clothing control, athleisure wear, equestrian gear, CMNM, etc.

Limits: sexual interaction of any kind, anything hardcore, anal, bathroom stuff, etc.

Users or characters MUST be 18 (no exceptions)

Reddit chat preferred. Please include your age, gender, orientation in your response otherwise you will be immediately ignored.