Hello curious folks of reddit. I am making this post in search for someone that shares similar interest both in and outside of kink. I would love to connect with you to build a friendship, trust, and explore the realms of kinks together. To that end, I am making this post extremely detailed to ensure that there aren't questions about who I am and what I am looking for to respect both my time and your time. As a obvious note, if you are a scammer, or someone with non-genuine intentions enjoy the read, but refrain from sending me a pm as our time is valuable. Also, if you still see this post up, it means that I have not found a partner yet and am still searching.

Myself (Vanilla)

To describe myself a bit, I am a black man, 5'10, fit physique, with brown hair and I typically go between braids or twists for my hair. I would say I am easy on the eyes. Physical appearance matters to some degree so I have no issue exchanging SFW images as well. I will ask the same of you so that we can decide to move forward or not.

My personality would be considered chill, witty, and private. I am not a recluse, but I prefer my business to kept out of people's business and I would hope you share similar thoughts. I enjoy learning new things regularly, especially things about the mind. I am also considered a nerd who enjoys anime (comedy, psychological, action), gaming (racing, rpg, strategy, fps), and technology(just a techie). Outside of this I have some other interests in things like finding new breakfast spots (it's the best meal and you can debate me about it), arcades, chilling at bars (sometimes I people watch out of boredom), or having casual nights at home watching shows while talking about whatever comes to mind. Additionally, I do a fair amount of cooking and training as I find it is great for relieving stress and keeping me in the right frame of mind.

You (Kink)

I have been in the kink lifestyle for about 4 years now, my roles that identify as are Dom, Sadist, and Master. Before anything, the first thing I need to understand is you as a person. Things like past experiences, interests, limits, aftercare preferences, boundaries, desires, and expectations help me figure out if we are compatible and what goals to set for the rules of the dynamic.

For dynamics, I do prefer to establish strict rules guidelines and expectations for my partner centered around pushing boundaries and also ensuring a health lifestyle, mentally, emotionally, and physically. This is with the intention of training and molding you into a sub suited for me within the dynamic.

I am also always learning and want to explore new areas of kink that I haven't experienced before. I want to explore more concepts like TPE, CNC, Rope play, and others. I am open to a number of ways to implement training and kink during bedroom play and with agreement and outside of the bedroom (how you dress, the way you interact with me in public, etc).

Currently, I am looking for someone interested in establishing a dynamic. I am not looking for 24/7 though that would be an interest of mine in the future. I have other priorities that will take precedence, and while it would make more sense if you also priorities as well, I am not opposed if the dynamic is your main focus. Though you will have to accept that it will not be the top priority. Additionally, I take sexual health important and would like to be sure you are DDF similarly to myself.

I am not looking for something online only and would at some point in time meet in a public location or have a facetime call to talk and do further vetting before meeting in person. I am open all of your questions and will hope you are the same to avoid confusion or misunderstandings.

For those that made it to the end thank you for reading and I welcome you to send me a pm if you are interested. If you are new or accustomed to the lifestyle I welcome you all the same though I ask that you live within the DFW (Dallas-Fort Worth) area and that you are genuine with your interest. When you message me include a SFW image of yourself and a bit about what you are currently looking for in kink. Those that don't do this will be ignored as you didn't read all of this post. Thank you for reading and good luck to everyone.