Good or bad I want you, someone I can talk to, and laugh with, and play with. Be it friendship or a soulmate, or anything in between, it starts with you telling me if you are a Good Girl or a Bad Girl and we work from there.

I am not especially hung up on age, but you must be emotionally mature and someone who likes to talk and communicate. It's ok if you are new to this, or very experienced, what matters is that you are eager to explore and help me help you when you don't know something.

I want you to have wants and desires, and want to actively turn me on as much as I do you.

I am a flexible Dom capable of being very gentle, or incredibly rough; and am pretty well versed in a wide array of kinks. I don't have many hard limits (most bodily fluids, scat, etc), and soft limits we can work out as we get to know each other. Some of the things I enjoy include impact play (I give a great spanking if I do say so myself), and giving orders and tasks, degrading, body writing, CNC, writing erotic vignettes to turn you on, choosing your clothing, and so much more!

But remember none of those things are mandatory, we will figure out what works best for the both of us. together.

I am 5' 10", blue eyes, pudgy (just being honest), and have hair that is half brown and half silver. I am poly, married, mildly disabled, and deeply nerdy (I am an engineer amongst other things). I don't read as much as I like (but I want to know everything about what you are enjoying), listen to a lot of podcasts, watch too much tv, and love the oxford comma.

It would be awesome if you are local or the Portland, OR area or visit periodically. I hate that I need to spell this out, but you need to be single or ethically non monogamous in some way.

Put the name of your favorite song in the title, so I know you read this. I expect you to be willing to verify within the first 48 hours, and am happy to do the same. Let's just get that out of the way as soon as we can, shall we? Attraction has to be there for both of us, and that is a lot more than just some boring stats.

And if you enjoy a little reading first, tell me how this story of mine made you feel.