I'm looking for a sex positive friend who would simply celebrate knowing when I jack myself with me. I just get so much more turned on when someone knows what I'm doing. And if they praise that I'm doing it, I just swoon. I love to talk about it while I just stroke. Just sharing something so private. I'll tell you any detail you want to know. Come chat with me while I relax and enjoy how good this is going to feel. It can just be something wonderful, and entirely natural.

An ideal friend would be a fellow exhibitionist / voyeur. Or someone more service oriented who enjoys praising my cock or my jacking. A woman who likes what they feel when I stroke and cum to them. And someone who wants the tone of our connection to be one of praise and affirmation, going in both directions. Praise really is the sexiest thing.

As for personality in a new friend, I will say that kindness goes a long way with me. I'd like this connection to be something positive for the both of us.

I am much more on the gentle and sweet end of the spectrum, but I am very comfortable being dominant in the bedroom. I'm in good shape for my age, and fairly good looking. I'm not a model, but women have always liked me. I'm less concerned about your looks, and more interested in your personality and how you treat me.

An ongoing thing would be ideal. Something that includes just normal conversation and friendship. And we can go at what ever pace works for us. I won't be sending any nudes right away, so be aware.

While fantasy is a wonderful place to explore desire, I figure I should list what doesn't work for me.

Limits and turn offs: Any kind of physical violence or harm (light spanking is fine), being degraded, anything going in my butt, anything coming out of anyone's butt, someone who wants to act like a brat. People who are married or in relationships also just aren't what I'm looking for. There are likely a few more that I can't think of. I'm probably not into anything overly extreme.