A quick summary at the top:

Looking for something real, but Hinge doesn’t have a setting to filter down to the horny kinksters. So here I am putting some serious effort into a personals ad on Reddit!

That being said, I’m also very open to exploring. Perhaps you’re looking for a short term relationship to satisfy an interesting kink of yours? Send me a message and I’d be happy to at least hear you out. I happen to be a fun/safe/experienced person for a wide variety of BDSM activities.

Now onto a longer description…

A little about me:

32 years old. Pseudo-nerd with way too many hobbies and tragically little time to get to them all. A little too tall at 6’5’’ and physically fit. Career success and education are important to me. But most importantly as far as this ad is concerned! I love most things associated with BDSM. I am very much a switch, but I lean a little more dominant and wouldn't mind having that be my exclusive role in a relationship. Rope bondage tends to be my top kink and I'm fairly skilled with a few shibari ties. I'm mainly interested in finding a long term relationship, but at the same time having a friend to practice my rope skills on would be great (even if it were completely platonic).

A little about what I'm looking for:

I would really enjoy meeting a woman that similarly has a broad interest in BDSM and kink the way I do. I'd be willing to take on a play partner provided we could see each other with some regularity, but meeting someone interested in authentic dating would be ideal. I'm looking for someone I could eventually call my life partner, primary, nesting partner, etc. Perhaps we could try dating as vanilla people would and slowly ramp up the amount of D/s involved in our relationship? I'm not picky when it comes to age, but please be safe, sane, and healthy. It would be especially nice to find someone that has a decent amount of values that overlap with mine and maybe some hobbies in common, but we could have fun figuring those parts out in person. Let me know if any of that catches your interest!

Closing note:

If this ad is still up you can assume I'm still looking. I probably won't be checking this account every day, but if it's been more than a month since I posted this you can definitely still send me a message and expect that I'll eventually see it.

Other closing note:

You can also look me up on FetLife with username "ice-giant". Messaging on there works just as well for me as messaging here on Reddit.