I’m pretty new to the whole friends with benefits thing. I’ve recently dealt with a pretty bad breakup. We had no sex life for months and months on end among many other issues. I’m looking for a fwb that is looking for just friendship and mutual pleasure. I’m a nice guy, kind hearted, funny, and I like to just have a good time doing anything, whether it be just listening to music, or trying to find the best cheesecake in the northeast. I’m not looking for someone that is exclusively looking to just… fuck and be gone. I’m looking for someone that wants to be friends, is looking for some mind blowing head and sex, foreplay, all that nice stuff, aftercare, etc… but also wants to just spend time with each other going on trips, hanging out at the beach, or going to get food at some hole in the wall restaurant, just…. Without an immediate label. Let’s just enjoy life and not stress the relationship we have with each other. I’m looking for one person, and don’t have any side pieces, nor am I interested in opening myself up to the risks of multiple partners. I am historically a loyal and monogamous man, I don’t like sharing.

I was stuck for 3 years catering to another persons wants and needs and somewhere along the line I lost myself, I want someone looking to explore and live life while we explore each other. It could turn into something more down the line, I’m open to it and not closed off to it, but it has to be natural and not forced.

I can send pictures, but I would appreciate that you do as well. I will not send you a phone number, email, or anything that will take the communication off of reddit until we meet for the first time.

If we hit it off here I’m more than open to meeting in person for coffee or food and seeing where it goes, that seems like the sane thing to do for both of us to feel comfortable.