Hello and thanks for spending some of your spare time with my wonderful words. I'm a pretty random kind of dude that seems to have lost touch with myself as well as most of the world around me. I used to be quite an outgoing and social person, I slowed down the just because social drinking. Most of the friends I had seemed to revolve around that whole scene, the bars, breweries, supporting friends that play music around town.

Focusing on work, fixing up the house, switching jobs there's been a lot of not fun stuff to focus on. I'm looking to spend some of our spare time making something interesting to focus on. I'm looking for all sorts of things, while I attempt to put myself back together and rearrange some things.

I'm looking to explore myself, while exploring someone similar, Or a couple in a "lifestyle" situation (whatever that means). My situation isn't terrible at home, but there are parts of me I need to reconnect with, re-familiarize myself with. Explore all the things that could be out there to experience. I suffer from being slightly too gentlemanly and find it difficult to discuss vulgar topics straight away. I like to talk like normal human strangers getting a feel for one another first.

I like to think I can keep things interesting for a while, I plan to keep this online to begin with. If things go well I'm around Rochester and travel around from Buffalo to Syracuse for concerts. I volunteer for a local park, and enjoy playing disc golf, when I'm not working I'm looking for new ways to spend my time. I work in science, I'm nerdy in the how things work way. But I don't look so nerdy. I lead a healthyish lifestyle, I take care of myself and my appearance, I'm no slouch, can make decent arm candy. I'm a man of many styles!

Maybe we won't even become a thing but we can share some words, especially if you're well fluent in the many naughties. Point me in a direction! I'm looking for friends, flings, all sorts of things! Couple friends, secret friends, a couple to explore a more advanced human relationship, maybe even join. I told you there was all sorts of things to explore!

Come have some fun, maybe find some feels, or a new friend!