Hello and depending on when you are reading this. Good evening. This might be a bit of a different post than usual. But i am looking for something different.
Who am i?
A 30 year old guy from The Netherlands. I stand about 1.85 m tall. Green eyes. Long dark blonde hair. I like to stay in shape. I have about 10 years of serious online and offline experience. I consider myself a soft dom. But with a mischievous and strict touch. I prefer a style of dominance that is more kind and nurturing. I can be loving and caring but at the same time i will keep you on a short leash. But usually i am quick to praise and slow to punish.
- I have no problem with verifying myself. There are SFW (Safe For Work) pictures ony channel.
What am i looking for?
In all the years of my being in the kink world. There is one thing that always stood out to me. Petplay. Wether you are a naughty pupper looking for an owner or a seductive kitten in need of a caretaker. There is something really special about petplay that isn't present in other kinks. Something more raw. More pure. More primal. So i prefer someone that also has petplay high on their kinklist. I am looking for a partner that is submissive and wants to build a connection and eventually wants to evolve into doing sessions in real life. Maybe it will stay with online play. Maybe it will end in a session or two. Or maybe it will evolve into a full D/s dynamic. The point is. I am looking for someone who is real and serious about commiting to something. I take my dynamics very serious and i expect the same from my partner.
Safety:
While it"s fun and all to engage in kinky play. Safety should always be on the foreground. I get a decent amount of messages from people that are looking for a quick way to get off and say they have no limits. Everyone has limits. And people saying they don't are a red flag for me. I am looking for something real and organized here. I NEVER engage in a session without taking safety into consideration. There are certain things i cannot and will not do without. 1. Mutual respect. 2. Trust. 3. Honesty and respecting boundaries. And above all 4. Aftercare. Aftercare is in my opinion one of the most important aspects of a good dynamic. As depraved as a session can be. Afterwards there should always be room to sharw thoughts. Listen and cuddle if needed. Safety and trust will always be held in high regard. And i find it inportant to build a bit of a connection first.
Location:
I am currently living in the south of The Netherlands. But i can travel easily. I would say my direct travel distance extends to The Netherlands. Germany and Belgium. So if you live in either of those countries, feel free to shoot me a message.
Now i do realize that this is probably a small chance. But maybe there is someone out there that dares take the plunge. Willing to dive into a new adventure.
If any of this has peaked your interest than feel free to send me a message. Thank you for reading.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 5 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/dirtyr4r/co...