Professional looking for an online partner to have a connection with. Not interested in something strictly kink based and would prefer to have an intellectual and genuine chat before moving into anything sexual. Currently, I'm looking for someone that I can share a spark with before we move on to anything explicit. I feel that what I'm looking for would align with posts searching for a slow burn or people who'd describe themselves as demisexual.

I'm kink friendly and open minded with more than my fair share of fantasies and fetishes. Although I have a high sex drive I'm not horny all of the time so I want to be able to talk with someone about other things in life.

For work I dress business casual, but at home my style is more alt. I have a few tattoos, glasses, and I'm in shape from going to the gym everyday. Outside of the bedroom my interests are music, art, and film. I like to joke around, hang out with friends, and have a few drinks to relax. People always describe me as a very chill person. I don't mind sharing photos or videos of myself. If that's a limit for you I understand but I don't we'd be a good fit. At the very least I'd want to chat with someone who's comfortable sharing sfw photos and willing to verify.

I have good availability during the workday to chat and I have a decent amount of free time after work for conversation and play as well.

Feel free to open up with what you're comfortable with but I'd like for you to include some info about you such as your interests, what it is that you're looking for. If you're interested but don't know what to say besides an introduction: What is your reason for being here? What's a thought you've been having or an emotion you've been feeling a lot lately? Music, art, books, and philosophy are also easy topics of conversation.

Being non-judgmental is in my nature and part of what I do for work and you can expect the same while we chat! I'm really just curious to see who's out there and find unexpected ways I can relate to others. I don't mind what your relationship status is I'm open to chat with anyone 18 . For reference I'm located in central time but wanting to chat with people from anywhere. If your profile is blank, a photo would be appreciated.