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Hello all who read this, I hope you are doing okay! This post may be a little disorganised but bare with me.
What I'm looking for
I'm really hoping to find a kind and gentle but also fun and enthusiastic domme (or even better switch) to help me discover and explore my submissive side. I have always been a dom, I am a tall, strong and masculine guy and I have to make it clear that part of me hasn't gone, but I have also always been very open to trying experiencing new things and recently I am finding myself having more and more thoughts on my submissive side, what it is like and what it likes. For this reason I would love to find a passionate and interesting woman who would love to help me explore and discover that side of me, who will take pleasure in guiding a masculine guy who is most likely taller than her. For this to work for me it is important I find someone with which I can create a real connection that has trust, spending time getting to know each other, sharing interests, making each other laugh and flirting hard to make a kinky bt more importantly genuine friendship with crazy amounts of attraction. I'm pretty new to being a sub and femdom but I do have an idea of what I like and don't like so I will go into the kinks and broad ideas I'd like to explore a bit further in but I will mention that I definitely lean towards the gentle femdom and worship. And if you are a switch who is interested I'll explain my dominant side further in too.
A bit about me
I am a 25 year old guy from the UK. I have loads of different hobbies and interests which you will learn as we get to know each other but to name a few... I love travelling, exploring different places and the gym and weightlifting is a big thing for me too. I also love playing games on my PC, watching movies and binging shows, music will always hold a special place in my heart. Physically I am 6'4" in height, I have blonde hair a few tattoos with plans to get more for sure, I have quite a bulky muscular build, large chest, broad shoulders and big arms.
The broad ideas and kinks I'd like to explore (and what I'm not interested in)
So I have two main ideas of what I think I'd be into. The first of which being along the lines of worship. I've always loved seeing my partner in pleasure and being the cause of that pleasure, for this reason I like the idea of worshipping someone and their body. Loving and worshipping their body to their heart's content, using my fingers, mouth, toys and my body to bring them all the pleasure they could possibly want, like a strong warrior fucktoy worshipping his queen.
- Body, breast, ass and pussy worship
- Being dommed from the bottom, get me to fuck you anyway you want
- facesitting
- using toys on you
- eating ass
- freeuse
- light degredation and name calling
The other idea goes along the lines of the gentle, kind side of femdom, along the lines of mommydom I think. I think in my life I have really lacked being praised and looked after, especially in sex, for these reasons I'm looking to be encoruaged and praised in a female led way, giving up the control to be looked after sexually by my partner
- Praise and encouragement
- leash and collar play maybe?
- orgasm control
- breast sucking
- freeuse for breeding maybe?
- Giving up control/ Female led
- being looked after sexually
So there may be lots more I'd be interested in that I don't know about but I do know what I really am NOT interested in. I am not interested in feminisation, sissification or humilation, I am a masculine guy and want to remain that way. I am also not interested in being pegged, sorry I know this is a big one for a lot of you.
My dominant side
My dominant side is sex positive and loves to celebrate sex, its all about hot, passionate sex that gets rough and messy, both of us becoming obsessed with ruining each other. With plenty of both light degradation and praise, hair pulling, spanking, sloppy head and facefucking, cumplay, toy play and turning you into a cumming mess. There is more to it but since this a submissive post I won't go into more detail unless you are interested.
Thankyou for reading!
Well to those, if any, of you made it to the end of this post, I hope you enjoyed and are interested. If you are interested please send me a message, I much prefer the chat. I don't mind where you are from, open to anyone 20 years old or older, the older the better really. have a good day :)
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