Hey Folks!

I am a 32 year old Caucasian man, born and raised in British Columbia, I'm kind and thoughtful and funny and conscientious and I highly prioritize clear communication in general, but even more so when sex is potentially involved. Consent is hot as fuck. I am not sure what a potential woman reading this would want in terms of details, but I feel it's important to share a little bit about me personally, as well as what I am looking for specifically. But ultimately, you're a person. If you want to message me, I trust you, go for it.

ME:

I had a tough stretch of mental health and physical health issues over the past 5 years, and in reality those issues have been present my whole life, but the point of this post is that i've spent the last ~3 or 4 years of my life primarily trying to pull myself up out of the muck and as a result I have not been putting energy into building intimate or romantic relationships with people. I wouldn't say I'm inexperienced, i've had my fair share of relationships and a few flings in my earlier 20's, but I would say i'm approaching "rusty", and just in general I may have built up a bit of a barrier around sex and intimacy just by trying so intentionally to NOT pursue it, and only focus on myself. Only way to break that barrier is to voraciously pursue sex again, maybe? I also don't want to step back into the dating scene and then have some extreme outpouring of sexual need that I haven't been meeting, so i kind of want to take this approach first before trying to pursue dating again, just so I can have a clear outlet for this energy and make sure it's directed at people who are willing.

So, I'm making this post hoping to connect with someone in the Okanagan area for something in the "low pressure casual safe fun and happy hangs" type of category. Ultimately I'm just a guy trying to break the rust off my joints and remember how to be a sex machine! Sexually I'm generally pretty giving, i've historically been more interested in finding out what the person i'm with is really into, what makes their eyes roll back into their head, what they fantasize about, and seeing if that can be made real. I'm interested in trying new things, I'm open to kinky stuff, but really it's about whatever energy the person infront of me is putting out.

I'm willing to exchange pics at some point, and I'm in no rush to meet up with someone, so if you do reach out, no pressure etc. Another important note, maybe, I am looking to connect with someone that is primarily femme presenting and identifies themselves as a woman primarily. I'm not willing to put "M4A" in the title because I'm explicitly not attracted to men and masculinity, but I don't think I'm completely restricted within the binary. So, if you find yourself wanting to respond to my post and aren't sure, say hey anyways and we'll make that decision together.

I am also willing to connect with people who are from different areas and not able to connect in person as locals, because people are cool and I'd love to hear about your sexcapades and experiences or something.

Oh, also, in terms of stuff not related to sex, I'm a social weed smoker, big into anime, love hockey (go canucks go), generally appreciate nerdy shit, comedy, games. Lets connect!