Hello,

My name is Al and I’m a dominant guy based in England.

I’m 6ft tall, have a bulky ‘dad bod’ build but I carry it well, bearded, shaved head. I would describe myself as rugged.

I am in an open relationship.

I would say this is very likely to be my ‘hail Mary’ post. It’s been close to two years since my last dynamic and, after this attempt, will likely step away for a while.

I’ve been into dominance since my late teens, pushing nearly twenty years worth of experience. I started primarily as a daddy dominant and caregiver, over time, my tastes have shifted more towards sadism, dark and extreme kinks. However, I am more than happy to cover the role of daddy dominant and caregiver.

I’ll save my kinks for the private chat, but I’ll give you a sense. The more darker and twisted, the more I’ll enjoy them.

Outside of kink I am a fairly chill and easygoing guy. I have a dark and dry sense of humour. I am a huge nerd who enjoys video games, comic cons, fantasy and sci fi. I love to cook but I can’t bake for shit. I have recently got back into skateboarding as a way to make exercise somewhat fun.

I work a fairly tedious, high level blue collar job. My work is shift based so I tend to be available at weird hours which makes it easy to chat with people in other timezones.

Looking for

For me, personality is everything. I want to have a partner with who I can chat about anything and everything. I would love to have someone who checks in during the day to see how work is going, who gives me positive affirmations and vibes with me.

The kink is secondary. For me, having that relationship outside of the BDSM dynamic opens up trust and understanding. My previous dynamic lasted for over two years so I am in this for the long haul.

Whilst it would be nice to have someone based in the same time zone, I am available at pretty much all random hours due to my job. If you want to maybe get to know me a bit better, drop me a message with a little bit about yourself and we’ll go from there.