I'm a 31y/o white guy from the Netherlands. I have brown hair and light turquoise eyes with a dimple chin (and yes I love my dimple chin ). I'm 1.83m tall and semi athletic in terms of build. I'm working out trying to shape up. I have tattoos (hidden) and two lip piercings but I haven't worn them in years. I've been complimented as being handsome or "F*ckably cute" which was the most bizarre description ever but because of that, I don't think I'll ever forget it. Annnnd Im always clean, fresh and smelling amazing. I get complimented on this often by my close friends… Hygiene is a priority for me.. except after gym… then you'll just have to deal with manly-man smell until I shower.

I'm known as the oddball in my friend circle but mostly because I'm pretty diverse in who I am. I can be described as patient, nurturing, protective, fearless, loving and bubbly. I care for those around me fiercely and protect them without hesitation. For my submissive, it's tenfold more intense. I'd say I'm possessive but not clingy. I'm genuinely a funny and open guy who enjoys conversation even if it's entirely off topic or just random... Especially if I'm talking to my partner. I really just enjoy talking with the person I adore. Be it about a rant or that she's roasting another girl on the train etc or maybe just her needing attention and affirmation… I absolutely love being there for my submissive.

Interests? Hmmm…I love reading (warning I have spicy book recommendations and I'm not afraid to read fantasy smut in public, no one notices but it's liberating), botany, hobby crafting, gaming (PC Switch Ps4), Tabletop gaming (MtG D&D), exercising and watching movies/series and Anime. Oh oh oh and cooking!!! I love cooking! I'm quite open to trying out new things so I'd love to share some interests with my submissive so we can bond even more. … And yes. We will attempt to bake together. Even if we end up burning the cake and covering each other in flour and icing.

I have 9 years experience in BDSM and I've been very fortunate to get to be around various friends, both Doms and Subs to learn the Do's and Don'ts in the kinky side of relationships. I am naturally a very caring person so I gravitate towards kinks such as CGL, DDLG (more the sexy naughty kink and aesthetic and NOT the diaper wearing regressive lifestyle), Petplay and generally highly sexual Dom/Sub dynamics... But I'm fully capable of tailoring a dynamic to make my submissive enjoy every moment of our relationship while still maintaining my own pleasure and satisfaction. I will say I have a sadistic side that plays up when my submissive is bratty and needs to be guided firmly back to our agreed rules and guidelines.

With my time in the kinky world I've had a try at just about everything besides the really extreme stuff (Blood play, etc ) and the nasty weird stuff (Scat, vomit etc). I avoid those like the plague. I consider myself a sophisticated Dominant that knows decisively what I want, how I want it and why. Once you know the what, how and why… You can clearly communicate this to your gorgeous little submissive so they know exactly what to do, where the line is and how to get the praise they crave or the red throbbing bum they secretly desire. Did I mention I love (fun)punishments? Anyways. I want to tend to your needs, I want to structure your life, guide you, train you and rebuild you the way I need you. If you want to be mine, understand that you'd become the centre of my world, I'll mistreat you in the best ways, love you more intensely than you can fathom and be the sunlight on your darkest days. I want to be there with your favorite meal, a blanket and cuddles after a grooling* day at work or uni. I want to share your happiness, hear your giggle. I want to tease you and make you drip…I want to see you give me that subby look… you know… the one with the doey eyes and the soft lip bite. I melt. I transform into a steamy puddle of speechlessness...

It's the small things but it's those things that make my heart glow. The dynamic actually just magnifies it immensely.

P.S. I'm disastrously deviant and perverted with the right submissive. I'll have you drooling, lip biting and begging all day, if I see fit. I want to bring you to the point that you are afraid to be away from me, scared I won't play with you… worried I won't praise you for being such a good girl. Your self control will crumble to my words… your dignity will fade away with a mere touch of my hand on your knee. You will be entirely mine.

I have a large list of kinks and fetishes… so please ask me if you're curious about them.

Now, you've read through the boring part about me, let's talk about you. Possibly??

I'm drawn to women with certain traits as I feel like I can resonate with my partner and be immensely attracted to her if she shares some of these traits. I'm going to lay out a few, but please don't view this as a checklist, it's not. These are some of the traits that I find necessary for us to share a strong bond and chemistry.

I'm looking for a partner who is attentive and committed to the role dynamic. A woman that is loving, excitable and fun. A woman with an active / High sex drive ( Whoa! Hold your horses there reader… before you start waving that red flag around. Allow me to explain. A woman with a high sex drive is likely to be more affectionate and needy. Both are traits I ADORE. Nothing makes my knees wiggle harder than a sexually needy submissive. And no I'm not going to pull the usual "Reddit Daddy: Oh ye? SeNd N00dz otherwise you're a bad sub". If I wanted to see kinky women doing bad things I'd be knee-deep in Google Incognito)...and lastly in general, be cute or atleast think you, yourself are cute. Confidence is attractive. Bonus points if you're just a horny perverted needy mess. (I can be honest can't I?)

Where was I? Oh yes! A woman that is affectionate (intensity matters) and needy (see above, both sexual and non sexual). To clarify… I'm like a mirror, whatever energy and effort you put in, I will reflect back. By that I mean if you were to spam me with messages, I'd take the time to respond to each message in detail, I enjoy holding a conversation and learning about each other. You can expect no thirsty one liners from me. Put in the hype, intimacy and energy and get a hype, intimate, energetic romantic Dominant in return. Best trade deal ever.

I'm also insanely attracted to women who have a certain aesthetic, such as:

Princess Aesthetic. Bows. Flowy dresses and cute outfits. pinks and pastel colours. Bunnies and teddy bears. CUTE. Yeah.. my knees … they buckle.

Alternative/Goth Aesthetic. Pale, fishnets, chokers… black boots … yupp I'm having a hard time staying focused just typing it out. Imma need a cold shower…

Nerdy / Gamer Girl Aesthetic. Yeah I don't even know… just a woman in her nerdy element is ridiculously attractive. Hell I'll even send you my baggy nerdy shirts to wear as Pajamas… okay that's weird. I'll remove that when I edit this. Nerdy girls = Immediately Attractive.

Psst…. Catgirls. Tail. Ears. Paws. Do I really need to say more than CUUUUTE head scratches and lower back tickles for you.

Lastly, This is new but… Demon girls… where are you? Uhhhhh listen… pacts can be made, I'll be your Warlock Daddy.

Please don't think of me as shallow for the above mentioned descriptors, this is something that I've slowly learned about myself and my kinks over the course of my time in the BDSM community. These are my weaknesses and vulnerabilities and it's already weird to be putting myself out there like this… let alone on Reddit.

If these descriptions don't match you or your style…. But you're interested in maybe trying it or moving into it… I would be happy to explore it together with you. Now if you honestly read this far and you were paying attention in detail… I'm going to test your ability to follow instructions. Start your chat with "FRENCH TOAST" if you want to leave a good impression. For me this is quite important. Make me proud.

Lastly, this isn't my first time posting here. I had a tiny bit of success but alas I'm back here so yeah. I believe my little submissive is out there, and I refuse to believe that she doesn't exist so I'm going to keep trying. In addition, I am willing to relocate to somewhere in Europe or Help you relocate to me if we ever reach the point where we want to be together forever. I know this is quite important to mention as I'd eventually like to have this become a real relationship in person. Be it a bedroom only deal or 24/7 lifestyle.

So. That's it. That's the whole thing. I'm nervous to post this, I'm scared and excited. I really hope I can meet someone amazing and finally share a bond that others would envy.

If you have questions, or if you're simply curious or perhaps you would just like to chat… please don't hesitate to open a chat with me.

I look forward to hearing from you.