At 36, I'm certainly not young, but I am still exploring new depths to myself. In the last few months, that's led me to seek out a Domme/sub relationship. I've quite a bit, but don't have a lot of experience with a partner. I'd absolutely love to build that experience, but it seems there are lots of men exploring submission and I haven't stood out enough yet.
I could write a very long post explaining my journey and my desires, but these are the main points:
- I'm hoping to find a caring and gentle dominant woman who prefers to nurture her subs
- My willingness to please is very strong and I don't need the threat of punishment to try my best
- Encouragement goes a very long way. Saying "good boy" will make me melt into a mess
- I really don't like pain. I'm open to it when it has a purpose, but I don't like when it's arbitrary
- My kinks are pretty open, but center around control: teasing, JOI, orgasm control, light bondage, exhibitionism, and generally doing as I'm told
The rest of my life is very stable. I'm a single man with a career and a healthy body. I like to run, bike, read, and watch old movies. If you have interests you like to talk about, I'll happily engage you in conversation.
Would love to find someone locally or online. I'm open to playing in whatever works best for you :)
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